ButtErFlies-In It To Win It

So glad for you, xxx Jane xxx​
 
Evening ladies, I have been very busy getting everything ready for a car boot tomorrow. It's loaded onto the van and now my backs breaking.

Victoria I am so pleased for you, have a good talk and like you said lot's of making up to do xx Well done on the loss as well. 9lb wow.

Contrary, my friend noticed as soon as I opened the front door to her so I was very pleased. She has been the first person other than my family to notice so it felt great. She said she couldn't believe my Hubby's family hasn't noticed as she said I look half the size-yippee.

Broxi, thats fab about the weight loss already hun.

I will be busy at carboot tomorrow but will come on in the evening and tell you how much dosh I made lol. I had it doesn't rain.
 
hi girls, sorry wasnt around yesterday, victoria im so pleased for you and great loss even if not a nice to loose it, hopefully more with all that making up;)
asa is away broxi and nikki is taking a bit of abreak i think, but will be on and off, she moved in with ian and cant get on as much and off on hols soon, she be on soon,
every one is doing so well with their losses, mine have slowed down a bit but im still pleased with them , have my
totm * again today, i am fed up with it being every week but the losses are making up for it xx
 
Hope you all have a good weekend.

Went to see Tweenies today with my youngest had a fab day she loved it, actually really enjoyed it myself.

Just having a quick read so thought id make a quick post.

Your all doing so well x
 
Evening girls, I did well at the car boot today, made £246 and still have a third of it left so we are going to do another tomorrow to get rid of the last of it. I took my bar with me but when I went to have it, it had melted so didn't have anything until 3pm but felt ok apart from sunburnt face and chest lol.

I hope you have all had a good Saturday xx
 
Hi everyone, where are you all? So quiet! I've had a lovely day treating my Mum to the musical We Will Rock You and out for a meal afterwards. Yes, my first morsel of food in 11 weeks!

I've been umming and ahhing over having my 810 week early for a while, or having some food on ss+. My losses are slowing down and I've been finding the temptation to eat food far greater despite recently refinding my determination and motivation (which went awol around week 8). Decided to try and have a sensible meal that would be close to an 810 choice and see what happened. I've just started private counselling because I don't want to lose all my weight and then put it all back on again and if eating food again is going to cause problems that I'd like the support!

Introducing food when I still have a stone and half to go was a terrifying thought for me; hence needing to do it! I'm still scared this will trigger my old binge eating problems but feel good at the moment. I had cajun chicken with salad and only ate the ones allowed on the list, no sauces and stuck to water to drink...so fingers crossed I don't wake up ravenous and wild tomorrow!

How sad am I, feeling brave for eating some chicken? Mad, mad world... :)

Hope you're all doing good, managing the weekend and the ups n downs. Night butterflies xxx
 
Hi Butterflies,
How are we all today? I hope you all had a good day. I had a great time. I went in to Frasers with my mum and I didn't realise they had an amazing sale so I bought loads of 6 Kalico tops for £70 and they're all stunning. One of them was about £80 reduced to £12. They had a 70% sale and then an extra 20% today. I didn't know it was on so was delighted. The only problem is they are all a 16 and hopefully I wont be that for much longer. I haven't really bought anything since I started C D though. I also bought a new bra cos my old ones were hanging off. My boobs are still massive though - 36 GG! It's quite ugly really. Anyway they look alright with clothes on!

Contrary, you will be fine with eating. I did it for over 3 weeks there and put on 3lb and have lost it again in 3 days. I have been back on diet - SS100% and i'm finding it easier than I did before at the moment. I wouldn't say I'm losing weight that quickly though but as long as it comes off I don't mind. You're doing fantastic anyway.

Good night all, will speak to you again tomorrow xxx
 
Victoria - this is a special post for you!

I really feel for you at the moment, and I am so sorry I was away when you went through a realy tough time - as I wasn't there to support you.

I am glad that he came back, but I can't even begin to imagine what you went through waiting for him to talk with you.

I am thinking about you, and praying and hoping things are on the right path. If you ever need to chat, I am here for you...... if you would like my number, please pm me, and I will send it.

I am sending you lots and lots of love.

Bethan xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
Ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am back from my holidays - and boy I have missed you all!!!

Welcome back from your holiday Broxi - it is great to have you back!!!


Well I managed to stay stable - 12.3 when I left, and 12.3 when I got back and with totm too!! I had a break last weekend, and last night I went to a ball (with a sit down meal). I stayed ss Mon to Thurs - so I am back on it today..... and pretending not to be hungry!! ha ha!!

I was surprised that I eating came back to me quite naturally!! But I need to shift another stone before my bmi hits 25........ so here goes!!!

My ball was lovely last night - it was for my walking group.....and about 80 people where there! I was told I was going to win 'belle of the ball' but I got really embarrassed, and said I really would prefer not to win - so luckily they listened and I came second!! It was a lovely gesture - and nice as I have lost all that weight - but I didn't want to get a prize or be singled out, so I was glad not to win it!! ha ha!

How is everyone else???

I need to start selling clothes on ebay so I can get some funds towards my new wardrobe for when I am at target!!

Bxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
Contrary - I was worried about eating again too, but I was fine and felt full quickly!!! which is good!!

I am now going to try to ss to bmi 25 - but you are not far off that!!

I guess for me, I just need to make sure I use the same determination and control for food, as I have done for this diet....... sticking with it is hard, and we have all done so well - and I am sure that if we can stick to ss, we should be able to make sure we don't put back on when we finish or start 810 again!!!

Just think of the jeans we are going to buy babe!!

How are you today??
 
Hey Lady B,

What a success! Staying the same during holiday!! You must be SO pleased and proud of yourself!

I usually put on 7lbs on holiday, so to me this is one heck of an achievement! After eating yesterday I realised I was hungry later that evening, so had my 3rd CD pack and that sorted it.


Woke up the next day feeling no different. No hungrier than normal! If I can galvanise my arse to Sainsburys I might go and buy some bits and pieces and try for my 810 week now. I stepped on the scales today and have finally got into the 11s! This is a biggy for me as I notoriously stick in the 12s!! 12. 8 is the weight I've never got past before.

I have a pair of 14 designer jeans (read size 12 really here!) that I keep trying on, each week I can get them a bit further up which feels great. Yesterday I wore size 14 head to toe which was a pretty amazing feeling. And I have noticed the male attention has suddenly increased rather dramatically, which is nice, although a little disconcerting too.

And on a personal note... when Andy (my fiance) was killed, I put a dress that I wore on our anniversary weekend in his coffin with letters I'd written and a few other personal bits and pieces. I went out and bought another of the same dress to save for my memories. This might sound a little odd to everyone, I know.

Anyway, years later I put on so much weight I have never worn that dress but kept it anyway. Today I tried it on and it almost does up at the back. I can see my shape again and got a glimmer of the old me mixed with the me I'm going to become. Meant a lot to me :)

Couldn't have done it without you lasses. Thank you.
 
hi ladies had problems getting on here yesterday, then went out with friend last night, i drove and drank soda from a wine glass, all the staff laughed at me, got chatted up in all 4 pubs, which made me feel good, i wore size 16 black skinneys and a 16 long top, both of which were a bit too big, made me feel great, had a better time than if id been drinking then tok my friend for a kebab which she scoffed whilst i had a cranberry bar lol, i was full half way through. went to bed at 3am stayed at hers chatting all night, back home now and having cuddles with my charlie, xxx
have a fab day all, xxxx
 
Claira yipeeeeee bet you felt amazing. I had a very similar night out a couple of weeks back, even with the kebab! Although sadly I wasn't chatted up!!! 4 times! Your hormones must be going mad! This we knew :)

I find it amazing what a good time can be had without alcohol..hope I can remember this when maintaining!!

Have you noticed how near your bmi is to the overweight only bracket??
 
contrary that is lovely, you will be in it soon, well done luv xxx
good to have you back bethan, xxx
glad things are on the up for you victoria xxx
size 14s soon broxi xxx
zoe great stuff with boot sale, hope you get another good day today xxx
matt bough me a pair of size 12 jeans from next sale £20 from£45, they are skinny fit i cant get them over my arse, i want to wear them on holiday on 28th sept, 2 months away, so i may be about 11st, not sure if i will manage but gonna give it mt all xxx
 
yes i said to my mate this morning about 12 7 and im over weight i started out as obese |||. now obese |.
cant wait to be overweight, xx
 
girls dont forget to update your losses in weigh in private group, xxx
 
Contrary - wow, those jeans will soon be on! I have brought some size 14 stuff and keep trying it on - another 7 ish lbs and I will be these! whoop whoop.

I totally understand the dress - and it was a lovely idea to put it in with him!! I am so pleased you are nearly back into the same (but different) dress........ I hope that brought back some good memories of him for you!

You have done so well babe - especially after a loss like that......

I am sure you got lots of admiring glances, even if you didn't get chatted up!
 
Claira - aren't you the sexy little minx!! I bet it was lovely to recieve all those compliments!

Well done on your bmi status........... wow!!

I am also very proud of you for sticking to it while you were out - you did so well babe!! I bet you felt happy with yourself the day after for not cheating!!

This diet is really life changing............ we are all doing sooooooo well!!

I really think we ought to meet up when we have done.......
 
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