Chelsea Lou - The Ventura adventure, not a sinking ship!

LOL -- DD's measurements are 30-24-31! Hardly DDs. More like AAs! ;) She'll be 12 on Wednesday.

MM
 
If you are referring to the dream I had then yes I did and I was slightly embarrassed thinking he might have known what I dreamt - which is completely daft haha.

Yes it was the colleague you had the dream about, I feel strange if I dream about colleagues and they are run of the mill dreams!
 
Yes it was the colleague you had the dream about, I feel strange if I dream about colleagues and they are run of the mill dreams!
This dream wasn't exactly run of the mill........it had a lot of sexual energy although there was no physical touching :eek: xx
 
Aw bless, I hate my dds, and so wish I could be my nice pert 36b as of when I was 30. :eek::cry:


two words:boob lift

Okay, more than two words... I had a friend who had one of these (after four kids) and she did not even need a bra once she was healed! It like she was 15 again!

A mini-TT and one of those, and I might be willing to wear Shanny's tiny weeny red bikini (okay, throw in a spray tan 'cause I'm mighty white).

MM
 
two words:boob lift

Okay, more than two words... I had a friend who had one of these (after four kids) and she did not even need a bra once she was healed! It like she was 15 again!

A mini-TT and one of those, and I might be willing to wear Shanny's tiny weeny red bikini (okay, throw in a spray tan 'cause I'm mighty white).

MM
Oh Mel, I know what you mean. I would love a reduction and lift, plus a tummy tuck, liposuction etc etc etc. I did once apply to go on Extreme Makeover but to no avail. £25,000 should sort me out. Or, I could just be grateful to be alive and actually accept who and what I am. So many of these surgeries go wrong just look at the Bride of Wildenstein. Her husband must have so hated her to make her look like that :eek: xx
 
... Or, I could just be grateful to be alive and actually accept who and what I am. ...

Hear Hear Chels!! absolutely! I have come to the same conclusion, couldn't afford surgery so have to accept my belly (after 2 c/s) will always be this way and shrinking it has helped a bit! i'll never have a flat tummy but that's ok with me!

Happy Valentine's Day to you! Hope Eric spun you a special web today!

Have a great week hunny
xx
 
Agree with Lelly, you are fab as you are, take a look at that profile pic hun! None of us are 21 anymore (OK, Jess will be soon, but we'll forgive her!) and no nip or tuck would change that. Along with the weight, we all have a journey to learn to love ourselves or accept ourselves, anyway, and be at peace with our bodies. DDs and all!

Have a happy Valentine's Chels, I think we should all try and spoil ourselves a little bit today... enjoy!

xxx
 
Happy Valentine's Day!!!

Ahhh, too bad you are too beautiful to be chosen for Extreme Makeover. It is a bit like my wanting (at one time) to be even fatter so I could qualify for a gastric band.

I think KC is right -- we are going to do what we can to improve ourselves and learn to love the bodies we are in.

MM
 
Hear Hear Chels!! absolutely! I have come to the same conclusion, couldn't afford surgery so have to accept my belly (after 2 c/s) will always be this way and shrinking it has helped a bit! i'll never have a flat tummy but that's ok with me!

Happy Valentine's Day to you! Hope Eric spun you a special web today!

Have a great week hunny
xx
Eric has done a runner!!!!!!! Went out during the night on Saturday and I haven't seen him since......See!? I can't even keep a spider happy let alone a fella :D

I sympathise with the c-sections and how they have left your tummy Lelly. Four full term pregnancies and a hysterectomy (bikini incision) have left my tummy looking pretty grim but hey ho....in an ideal world we could get these things fixed but I'm not so hung up about it now. I think as you get older you are more ready to accept not being perfect :sigh:
Agree with Lelly, you are fab as you are, take a look at that profile pic hun! None of us are 21 anymore (OK, Jess will be soon, but we'll forgive her!) and no nip or tuck would change that. Along with the weight, we all have a journey to learn to love ourselves or accept ourselves, anyway, and be at peace with our bodies. DDs and all!

Have a happy Valentine's Chels, I think we should all try and spoil ourselves a little bit today... enjoy!

xxx
Happy Valentines to you KC and to everyone. I am getting a bit more peaceful with the way I am. I would never go to a nudist colony or anything like that and s*x with a new partner would be a bit of a trial initially, unless it was completely dark lol. At the end of the day my body has given me 4 children (sadly my son died at 36 hours old, so that's why you all know me as having 3 daughters). It has sustained me for 55+ years and hopefully for a good many more, so of course I should love it and be grateful for it. I must learn to love my massive boobs too, as they prevent gravy from dripping onto my shoes :D

Re: Valentines day.......I am front of house so all the flower and card deliveries I have to sign for. I am currently sitting with two of the most beautiful arrangement of red roses and a bottle of wine. BOTH from a colleague's husband. They've only been married for about a year. Let's see what he gets her in a few years time :D Cynical????? Moi??????
Ahhh, too bad you are too beautiful to be chosen for Extreme Makeover. It is a bit like my wanting (at one time) to be even fatter so I could qualify for a gastric band.

I think KC is right -- we are going to do what we can to improve ourselves and learn to love the bodies we are in.

MM
Aw Mel, how skewered our thinking becomes when we wish bad things on ourselves so that we can have corrective surgeries and proceedures. So dangerous, especially the amount of young girls that want to have stuff done to their lovely little faces and bodies. I've got the money now to have my eyes done and went for the consultation and was booked to see the surgeon last Thursday. I realised that it would take all my savings, leaving me vulnerable financially and actually having my eyes done, I can do without quite easily. So I am learning about self-love.

Love to you all and thanks. xxxxx
 
Re: Valentines day.......I am front of house so all the flower and card deliveries I have to sign for. I am currently sitting with two of the most beautiful arrangement of red roses and a bottle of wine. BOTH from a colleague's husband. They've only been married for about a year. Let's see what he gets her in a few years time :D Cynical????? Moi??????


I remember those days well! We both forgot about Valentines this morning and I'm secretly hoping that he won't get me a card as I won't feel so bad for not getting him anything :rolleyes:. We are having a nice family meal tonight though and my daughter and I are going to bake cupcake with red icing (for loooooove) - might even go and see if I can get some heart shaped sprinkles for it.

Have a great day!
 
Day Flirty..oops I mean Day 30

Nooooooo I won't be doing any flirting today. My hooter is still sore and swollen, despite nearly a week of antibiotic tablets and ointment and nozzie was so blocked last night that I was up at 2:30 watching TV and on the laptop, so I have sacks for eye bags this morning and look completely disgusting :(

30 days in and still no real change from the collarbones down but I am hoping that the WI tomorrow will reveal a loss. I blinking well hope so, having been 100% for all this time.

Getting this first stone off is taking an agonisingly long time and Dick keeps telling me that I could have had the same results with eating WW or the like. I know that, at this stage, WW would not be an option for me because I don't trust myself. So Dick has had to be told.

Another 14 days on SS/SS+ and then I am moving up to 810 regardless. I will definitely have had enough by then and the results that Katy is having and the way she feels so cool and calm about it all is very reassuring and inspiring.

Wishing you all a day filled with love and cuddles :)

 
Morning Chels,

Perhaps, Eric is like all children -- he had to grow up and move out and be more independant. Or maybe he is just having one heck of a Valentines Day weekend rendez-vous?

@herewego -- I gave my children their little Valentine's Day treats this morning at breakfast. And, I gave my DH his card from me.

And then I handed him a Valentine's Card that he had bought for me a couple of years ago and mis-laid. (I found it a month or so later while tidying some paperwork, and it was still in the shop bag with the receipt. I put it in my box of cards and just left it there.)

I am sure he gave me the flowers at the time, and said, "I have no idea where the card went."

Anyway, I handed him the card and said, "You mislaid this a couple of years ago and never gave it to me Why don't you take this with you to work and fill it out there -- make sure the other guys see you do it. That way if they forgot, they can stop on the way home and get something!"

He put it in his briefcase. I wonder if he'll give it to me tonight! LOL

MM

P.S. I bought myself a bottle of expensive perfume a few weeks ago. I showed it to my DH and said, "Look what you got me for Valentine's Day." He said, "Damn, I'm good. It is not until next month!"

I am going to take it out now, wrap it and give it to him to present to me at dinner. My DS knows I do this -- he thinks it is kind of funny.

I am always whingeing that I HAVE to do EVERYTHING... and my husband knows how much I like being right: so he sees it as a win-win!
 
Mel, its so hard when the little ones leave the web. I have had to accept the fact that he had a good home here and that I have turned him into an independent little arachnid. No doubt he is sowing his wild oats somewhere.......getting his legs over :D as boys tend to do. Hmmmmmmm, I wonder how they do mate with all those appendages in the way? Can't say its something I've ever been privvy to lol xxxx
 
Making me laugh again Chels, 'getting his legs over' and 'the little ones leave the web..' Thank you!!!

Mel, a wise woman indeed when it comes to Valentines!

I planned to do a Valentines trifle for OH & DD but having a hungry day and not sure I will withstand the torture... !!!

xxx
 
Meant to say, wishing you lots of luck for tomorrow's WI. Keep the faith!

xxx
 
Mel, its so hard when the little ones leave the web. I have had to accept the fact that he had a good home here and that I have turned him into an independent little arachnid. No doubt he is sowing his wild oats somewhere.......getting his legs over :D as boys tend to do. Hmmmmmmm, I wonder how they do mate with all those appendages in the way? Can't say its something I've ever been privvy to lol xxxx

You've missed your vocation Chels, you crack me up! Keep 'em coming! xxxx
 
You've missed your vocation Chels, you crack me up! Keep 'em coming! xxxx
Lol, shagging spiders.............whatever next? Sixteen legs to sort out + a certain other little thingy. Must get mighty complicated. I mean, which ones do the males get between????? Sorry, bit rude for a Monday :D

Hope all is well with you Bess.

Pete Sake
 
Back
Top