Love the dress Chels. Just BEAUTIFUL. You're going to look fab... so exciting!!!
Re: people thinking we look scrawny... bring it on, I say! Met one friend in 2009 after goal, who said 'no, no, stop now, you've gone too far...' in a slightly p***ed off way, I have photos of that weekend and I look fine, slim, but not scrawny in the least. (Don't think I have it in me to be scrawny, though ever aware of the face/arse dilemma!)
One friend in early 2009 got very angry as I lost weight, and began warning me that if I went on my 'bones would snap', all this while I was still well above a healthy BMI. She was very big herself and soon after I got to goal she picked a fight and dropped me over something so crazy it really, really hurt me. Other friends spelled it out at the time 'she can't stand that you lost the weight'. So for some people it really IS an issue, but THEIR issue I think.
I know your friend didn't mean anything bad, just adjusting to the new svelte Chels I suspect! You are going to ROCK that dress. And yes, you ARE the person we have described... who else? Yay Chelsea!
xxx