Becka I had a really low key wedding so am a bit jealous of all your preparations, didn't even have a wedding dress myself (I was 7 months pregnant). All your shopping and planning must be fun.
Paula I haven't had any swelling with my pf (my kids can't pronounce it, they just call it "sh1te-is" - lol). Take no notice of your miserly nurse, she sounds like nothing would be good enough. Fancy not supporting someone who has shown willing and gone to considerable effort and expense to help alleviate their health problems? Ignorant and selfish. I don't get that attitude at all, and she's in a caring profession?? Glad she's not my nurse! Stay on here love, WE will give you the support you need and keep you on track.