I'm too obsessed with the calories to even think about those things, honestly. It's quite terrible isn't it?? I did enjoy it and consciously have it and all.. Calories, calories.......
![Confused :confused: :confused:](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
Pfff.
But normal at the beginning of maintenance. If anything, I think it's important to be a bit obsessed for a while until you gain confidence.
Anyway, I admit, I surrender
I try to do a short post, because I do crazily long ones
![Eek! :eek: :eek:](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
but then I go away and think..but I wanted to say X and Y:cry:
so I'm back
What I wanted to write was something you probably know, and what I hope will happen with you.
I had always thought of lifestyle changes in terms of weight. Losing weight, maintaining weight. Everything revolved around weight. I exercised to control/lose weight. I chose my foods to control/lose weight.
I get it now. It isn't about weight. Not when you've settled into maintenance. It's about lifestyle.
So I exercise because I like to. It makes me feel good. If it didn't burn any calories, I would still do it.
I eat well, because I enjoy the benefits of good food. I like the fact that it doesn't control me any more and I can enjoy healthy stuff and know that it's helping protect me from all sorts of nasties later on. I don't want to stuff myself any more. Not because I'll gain weight, but because I don't like the feeling now.
It really has nothing to do with weight. If I was told that I could binge forever more and not put on weight, I probably wouldn't want to.
My whole attitude to this lifestyle change has...well...changed
![Cool :cool: :cool:](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
I do believe I understand what 'they' were on about now
![Big Grin :D :D](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
Okay..53 years late, but got there in the end
![Big Grin :D :D](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)