I know what you mean!
I'm always like that when I organise a break away for my OH's birthday/Christmas pressie! I always try to take him away for these 'events', if I can afford to, cos I think buying for blokes is so boring otherwise. Also, I get to go away too!!
Only time it back-fired was when I took him away for the weekend once - stayed in a lovely B+B (not the old-fashioned sort), ate out at a gorgeous pub overlooking a river and, during the meal I handed him an envelope with the details for the following day. He was delighted when he opened it, as it was a day out on a barge, crossing over the highest aquaduct in Wales, just the two of us. It was something he'd always wanted to do and it was advertised as anyone can do it, even total novices. I checked this several times before booking and, each time, they reassured me that it was easy.
What a bloody disaster! We ended up, a couple of times, diagonally across the river, which was really narrow in parts, with me having to push us off with the long pole, shouting at each other, me in tears...... When a barge owner passed us, at one stage, he shouted across, 'Don't worry, love. You'll soon get the hang of it', to which I promptly burst into tears again!
When we reached a wide turning point, I phoned the office and asked someone to come and get us! I said, I don't care if we have to pay more, just get us!! In the end, an elderly couple came down to us and handled it perfectly, (they used to actually own the rental place, so knew exactly what they were doing) taking us across the aquaduct and back again. They did say, to be fair, that the barge should never have gone out, as it was much too sensitive to any touch on the tiller!
Although I like to get him something a bit different each time, I think we'll be keeping our feet firmly on terra firma from now on!!
Kathy x