Everyone else has got one... so now it's my turn

[everton04]

Sorry to hear about your friends Hun. That's awful. I went through a very bad stage like that with my friends and always telling me he isn't right for me and blah blah blah. During that time myself and h2b used to always fight over things my friends were saying and not talk for a few days. needless to say they are no longer friends of mine and they were so wrong about our relationship as we bought a house last year and are getting married in sept and we couldn't be happier. I was always trying to prove them wrong and then one day I taught sod this if they are really my friends they should be happy for me. At the end of they day they are just jealous of what you and him have together and maybe ur friend isn't happy at all in her relationship and trying to cover it up by *****ing about yours! Chin up Hun and don't let it get you down


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[UKSerena]

Hey Sweetie, I'm so sorry to hear about your Saturday :-( I have to say, who needs Enemies when you have friends like those, I know it might of been the drink 'talking' but it's seriously not acceptable! I think i would of punched them in the face if it would of been me in your shoes! I'm sure that the boy has his tail between his legs and will text you before the shift ends. Hope works ok Sweetie. Lots of love and hugs. X

 

[trinab]

Hey hun how r u feeling. I cant believe wot your friends have said. Wot shitbags they r. I wouldnt even give them the time of day hun. I think there jelous hun uve lost weight and luk amazing and your realy happy with the boy. I wouldnt call them friends anymore either. Id give them a piece of my mind b4 telling them to spin on it. Dont let them get u down hun. Have u and the boy made friends? Im sure he wil b ok with u wen u explain wot happened. Its jelousy hun and they dont deserve u.x

 

[UKSerena]

Morning Emma, Hope you're ok. Love you lots like Jelly Tots. X

 

[elfy1807]

Sorry to hear about your friends Hun. That's awful. I went through a very bad stage like that with my friends and always telling me he isn't right for me and blah blah blah. During that time myself and h2b used to always fight over things my friends were saying and not talk for a few days. needless to say they are no longer friends of mine and they were so wrong about our relationship as we bought a house last year and are getting married in sept and we couldn't be happier. I was always trying to prove them wrong and then one day I taught sod this if they are really my friends they should be happy for me. At the end of they day they are just jealous of what you and him have together and maybe ur friend isn't happy at all in her relationship and trying to cover it up by *****ing about yours! Chin up Hun and don't let it get you down


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Hey Sweetie, I'm so sorry to hear about your Saturday :-( I have to say, who needs Enemies when you have friends like those, I know it might of been the drink 'talking' but it's seriously not acceptable! I think i would of punched them in the face if it would of been me in your shoes! I'm sure that the boy has his tail between his legs and will text you before the shift ends. Hope works ok Sweetie. Lots of love and hugs. X

Hey hun how r u feeling. I cant believe wot your friends have said. Wot shitbags they r. I wouldnt even give them the time of day hun. I think there jelous hun uve lost weight and luk amazing and your realy happy with the boy. I wouldnt call them friends anymore either. Id give them a piece of my mind b4 telling them to spin on it. Dont let them get u down hun. Have u and the boy made friends? Im sure he wil b ok with u wen u explain wot happened. Its jelousy hun and they dont deserve u.x

Thanks ladies for your concerns and caring words.

Everything's all sorted now with everyone.

My 2 friends were just trying to look out for me.
They'd read a message on my phone from the boy saying that when I get to 9 and a half stone, he'd like to come out in town on nights out with me.
They misread it as him not being proud of me or willing to be out in public with me right now because I'm too fat and they felt it was rude of him.
However, I knew what he actually meant, and that I'm not going to be able to relax until I've got that leeway and be 9 and a half stone so that I can go out and have a couple of drinks if I felt like it and not worry about going past my 10 stone goal weight.

So really, the girls were caring about me, but they did it the wrong way and I was annoyed that they hadn't asked me what that meant.

As for the boy, he cooled off a bit, we had a chat and we're all sorted.
And spend an hour down the park yesterday throwing a frisbee around.
Well... he was throwing it and I was running around after it.
I did clock up over 20000 steps yesterday though thanks to that.

And then we went to the music festival in the city, listened to a few bands, including an ACDC cover band which were actually quite good, and then chilled at his.

Bit gutted this morning though, as he didn't tell me he'd booked the day off work today, and I've already got 6 million other things to do today, including work this afternoon =(
Would've loved to have packed up a picnic and headed to the seaside or something with him.

But that's just the way the cookie crumbles.
Ah well.

Hope everyone's had a good weekend.
And here's to another monday!
x

 

[UKSerena]

Thanks ladies for your concerns and caring words.

Everything's all sorted now with everyone.

My 2 friends were just trying to look out for me.
They'd read a message on my phone from the boy saying that when I get to 9 and a half stone, he'd like to come out in town on nights out with me.
They misread it as him not being proud of me or willing to be out in public with me right now because I'm too fat and they felt it was rude of him.
However, I knew what he actually meant, and that I'm not going to be able to relax until I've got that leeway and be 9 and a half stone so that I can go out and have a couple of drinks if I felt like it and not worry about going past my 10 stone goal weight.

So really, the girls were caring about me, but they did it the wrong way and I was annoyed that they hadn't asked me what that meant.

As for the boy, he cooled off a bit, we had a chat and we're all sorted.
And spend an hour down the park yesterday throwing a frisbee around.
Well... he was throwing it and I was running around after it.
I did clock up over 20000 steps yesterday though thanks to that.

And then we went to the music festival in the city, listened to a few bands, including an ACDC cover band which were actually quite good, and then chilled at his.

Bit gutted this morning though, as he didn't tell me he'd booked the day off work today, and I've already got 6 million other things to do today, including work this afternoon =(
Would've loved to have packed up a picnic and headed to the seaside or something with him.

But that's just the way the cookie crumbles.
Ah well.

Hope everyone's had a good weekend.
And here's to another monday!
x

Hey Sweetie!

I'm so glad that you got things sorted with the boy and your friends Annoying that you couldn't share the day off with him but I'm sure there will be plenty of times int he future Hope work goes ok this afternoon.

Lots of Love x

 

[the_last_time]

Thanks ladies for your concerns and caring words.

Everything's all sorted now with everyone.

My 2 friends were just trying to look out for me.
They'd read a message on my phone from the boy saying that when I get to 9 and a half stone, he'd like to come out in town on nights out with me.
They misread it as him not being proud of me or willing to be out in public with me right now because I'm too fat and they felt it was rude of him.
However, I knew what he actually meant, and that I'm not going to be able to relax until I've got that leeway and be 9 and a half stone so that I can go out and have a couple of drinks if I felt like it and not worry about going past my 10 stone goal weight.

So really, the girls were caring about me, but they did it the wrong way and I was annoyed that they hadn't asked me what that meant.

As for the boy, he cooled off a bit, we had a chat and we're all sorted.
And spend an hour down the park yesterday throwing a frisbee around.
Well... he was throwing it and I was running around after it.
I did clock up over 20000 steps yesterday though thanks to that.

And then we went to the music festival in the city, listened to a few bands, including an ACDC cover band which were actually quite good, and then chilled at his.

Bit gutted this morning though, as he didn't tell me he'd booked the day off work today, and I've already got 6 million other things to do today, including work this afternoon =(
Would've loved to have packed up a picnic and headed to the seaside or something with him.

But that's just the way the cookie crumbles.
Ah well.

Hope everyone's had a good weekend.
And here's to another monday!
x

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Sounds like you've had an epic weekend, glad it's all sorted now & you had a nice day with the boy yesterday, 20000 steps, good going!! I used to play tennis like that with my bro, he would just hit it around the court & I'd be flying in all directions to hit it!! Great exercise

Shame about today, but sounds like the sun'll be shining for picnics on the beach for a few weeks to come

Hannah

 

[elfy1807]

Hey Sweetie!

I'm so glad that you got things sorted with the boy and your friends Annoying that you couldn't share the day off with him but I'm sure there will be plenty of times int he future Hope work goes ok this afternoon.

Lots of Love x

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Sounds like you've had an epic weekend, glad it's all sorted now & you had a nice day with the boy yesterday, 20000 steps, good going!! I used to play tennis like that with my bro, he would just hit it around the court & I'd be flying in all directions to hit it!! Great exercise

Shame about today, but sounds like the sun'll be shining for picnics on the beach for a few weeks to come

Hannah

Hi Hannah.

Nice to hear from you - thanks for subscribing.

Yeah... all sorted with everyone.
He was tired, I was tired, they were drunk & emotional.
Both of them have just come out of long term relationships.
One had her boyfriend of 5 years tell her he no longer loved her and should've broken up with her about 3 years ago, and the other had her (scumbag) boyfriend (I've hated him from day 1) cheat on her.
So they're both a little distrusting of men atm.
But there we go.

I actually managed to spend time with the boy this afternoon before work, but I'm about to update so will reveal all shortly (it's not all that exciting though haha)

Hope you've both had a good day
x

 

[the_last_time]

Sounds exciting....!!

Shame about your friends, sounds like they've been well & truly s**t on...but some boys are just lovely

 

[elfy1807]

Riteo... I'm here.

Been absent for the last couple of days - just been busy/not feeling up to posting for aforementioned reasons.

Anyway... stayed at the boy's last night and didn't wake up until half 7 - when he's usually leaving for work.
I was just like "Don't you think you should be up already?", which is when he told me he'd booked the day off work.

What a div.
Because I'd already made plans with another friend a couple of weeks ago for today, and then I had work, so I wouldn't be able to spend the day with him like he'd hoped.
He should've told me.
Especially as my day off is tomorrow.
Cute that he wanted to surprise me with a day off, but it backfired.

Anyway, went out with my friend and her 2 year old daughter.
She's gorgeous.
She's a proper little person these days if that makes sense.
We had a wander round town, and then headed to spoons for food.
They had onion rings and chicken wings whilst I sat there and drooled.
I had 2 satsumas and a weetabix oaty bar in my bag, so ate those to avoid temptation.

Then we wandered down to the river and watched the boats, then a stint in the park and by that time, my friend's mum was finishing work so she headed off to meet her and I went to get some lunch.

I had an Amoy Noodles nest for 5pp and a sausage roll for 4pp.
I put salad cream on my noodles, but the scales were messing about so don't actually know how much I had.
And there didn't seem to be enough so I put some ketchup on as well.
Again, the scales messed up. Argh!
So I've pointed them both as 1pp each just to be safe - as I know they definitely didn't exceed the 1pp, but gutted I've had to use 2pp unnecessarily =(
But hey ho.
Yeah, I've got activity points and weeklies, but I need to be 100% this week.

So after I had food, I went into the city to see the boy - I found time for him, yay!!
We had a wander round the shops and then I took him home and went to work.

Work was ok, dragged a little at the time, but in hindsight, doesn't actually seem to have been that long - most of it just blurred into about an hour in my head.

I've done just over 15k steps today, so very happy with that.
Well on my way to my weekly target of 84k.

Tomorrow is gonna be a busy one, as tuesdays always are.
I've gotta go gym first thing, and then Zumba from 930-1030 and after that I'm seeing my friend again and we're going to a nearby farm.
We're gonna take her daughter and she's looking after her nephew as well tomorrow, so we're gonna go over there.

I haven't been there for a long time, but last time I went (I was probably about 11/12), it was around easter time and I fed lambs, and went on a tractor ride out to the woods with a bunch of other people and had an easter egg hunt through the trees - there was one egg per child.
Was muchos funnos.
Haha.
So I'm looking forward to that and hopefully will clock up a few steps there.

Then it's the last youth club of term - we're closed over the summer, woohoo! - so we're going for a picnic down the local park.
That's gonna be tough, avoiding all the bits, but I'm going to make myself a mini picnic (after having a picnic at the farm - picnics galore tomorrow haha) to nibble on whilst they're eating their crap.

I'm determined to get those 3lbs off this week.

I'm also having to make a list of stuff I want to eat when I get to my leeway goal of 9st7.
I just keep looking at everything and want to eat it - donuts, greggs, burger king, apple crumble, allsorts.

But I think that's all I've got to say.
Hope you're all doing well.

I'm now having a toss up whether to have 16g fluff for my remaining pp or a yoghurt.
I have already had 2 yoghurts today, so the fluff will probably win.

x

 

[elfy1807]

Sounds exciting....!!

Shame about your friends, sounds like they've been well & truly s**t on...but some boys are just lovely

Yeah... my boy is adorable.
He can't do enough for me, which is why it really hurt when I heard my friends saying those things about him.

 

[everton04]

really glad you sorted things out hun!!
sound like you have had a fab few days and are making really good food choices. You seem to be so focused and in the zone which i have to really admire. Well done

 

[elfy1807]

really glad you sorted things out hun!!
sound like you have had a fab few days and are making really good food choices. You seem to be so focused and in the zone which i have to really admire. Well done

Haha... thanks for saying I make good food choices, but I really don't.
I just eat what I want as long as I can fit it in my points (and it's not takeaway =( haha!)

But yeah... I'm defo in the zone.
Finding it really easy, but as I mentioned over on your own thread a few mins, I'm worrying about getting to maintaining.
But thanks - you're doing really brilliant yourself.
We seem to have similar stats - similar amount lost, similar amount left to lose, similar height, similar start dates - only difference is, you're only an inch shorter than me but a stone and a half lighter than me.
May have to look into going a bit lower haha.

My aim was to no longer be in the overweight category - and I'm there =)

 

[the_last_time]

Haha... thanks for saying I make good food choices, but I really don't.
I just eat what I want as long as I can fit it in my points (and it's not takeaway =( haha!)

But yeah... I'm defo in the zone.
Finding it really easy, but as I mentioned over on your own thread a few mins, I'm worrying about getting to maintaining.
But thanks - you're doing really brilliant yourself.
We seem to have similar stats - similar amount lost, similar amount left to lose, similar height, similar start dates - only difference is, you're only an inch shorter than me but a stone and a half lighter than me.
May have to look into going a bit lower haha.

My aim was to no longer be in the overweight category - and I'm there =)

I struggle with maintaining but since I lost my larger my 2st 10 years ago I've never been that heavy again...I do get to 1st over though & that's when I think, oh dear!! I get to the top of size 12 & it's when I'm contemplating size 14 I realise I need to reign it in again or else buy a whole new wardrobe which I can't afford!! Clothes for me are the best indicator & one if the best motivators, like my favourite jeans, don't want to not fit into those!! I do struggle though, but that's just me, really hoping to keep this up this time. I've subscribed online now & will just keep that subscription for life, that way I don't feel like I'm going it alone. But don't worry about it too much just yet, just see what happens & take it easy in yourself until you get to know how much you can have. My aim this time - the last time (!) - is to keep writing it down, not necessarily all the pp values, but if its written down it will hopefully make me think....ooh I must stop eating so much next week....forever hoping!!!

 

[everton04]

Yea it's a constant battle with food for me as its everywhere you go. Every time you go meet friends, parties, family events etc its all revolved around food! But I suppose it's a learning curve and as you say if your bold this week just track everything the following week! I know a girl who joined ww and lost 4st she looks amazing but she said she will track for life as she never whats go go back to where she was before


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[trinab]

Mornin hun. wot a total div i am i just replyed to u thinkin it was your diary but it was serenas haha. Dont think she wil mind 2 much.x

 

[elfy1807]

Mornin hun. wot a total div i am i just replyed to u thinkin it was your diary but it was serenas haha. Dont think she wil mind 2 much.x

Haha, yeah, I just saw it lol.
What are you like?!

How are you doing anyway?
Feels like ages since I spoke to you.
Real life has been rudely getting in the way haha

 

[trinab]

Haha, yeah, I just saw it lol.
What are you like?!

How are you doing anyway?
Feels like ages since I spoke to you.
Real life has been rudely getting in the way haha

It has hun. Just been realy busy since the wkend havent had a min to sit down realy.x

 

[UKSerena]

Hey Sweetie, Hows your tuesday? You're right when you say real life has been getting in the way of our chats!!! Did u decide on the Fluff or Yogurt last night? Lots of Love xxxxx

 

[elfy1807]

Hey Sweetie, Hows your tuesday? You're right when you say real life has been getting in the way of our chats!!! Did u decide on the Fluff or Yogurt last night? Lots of Love xxxxx

Well... I went with the fluff.
But it was a disaster.
Looked inside, and there wasn't any!!!!

I managed to scrape 8g out of it.
I even stuck the jar in the microwave to melt it so I could get a bit more out of it.

Just hoping the birthday fairy heard my hints enough...
Haha.