Well its been in front of my face for 15 yrs, we even divorced for 6 months then he said he had changed his ways, and of course it didnt last long. He is constantly texting or phoning his mum, she lives 30 second walk up road. If she wants something done he drops everything to rush up and do it, I am sick of coming second to her....she`s a nice enough woman but the way she expects him to come running all the time is so sad, but he cannot see how it affects our relationship. He has to run all ideas by her first too, it doesnt matter what I think.
He also has an anger problem, he cant talk he always shouts so this is not helping my youngest son who is becoming just like his father with anger issues and my even have adhd, but dad does not even try to calm down......
Anyway I am trying to keep the atmosphere as calm as possible for the sake of the boys but then hubby cant do it.
Right enough of this talk, hope everyone is ok, and if he is going Germany he has no way of saying I cannot come to the Bath meet up.