Russiandoll
Carpe diem
You're a mere baby at 30 .... I'll be 45 <gulp!>
But would you at your heaviest even contemplate joining a gym, exercise class or perhaps going for a run? I know that I wanted to go running, but couldn't bring myself to do it.
When you're ready to get your own bike Karen, I'd recommend an S.U.B (sports utility bike). Mine is a Raleigh S.U.B which means it's a cross between a mountain bike and a road bike ... so it has all the gears & gubbins but has mudguards and a rack on the back for panniers / basket etc. (Nothing worse than a wet muddy a*se when riding a mountain bike with no mudguards!)
It also has semi-slick tyres ... chunky mountain bike tyres are hard work on tarmac! Semi-slicks are chunky at the edges for off-roading and less so in the middle for riding on the roads.
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Hi CC
At my heaviest there was no way, physically, that I would have been able to run (I could barely walk!) but I did join a gym when I weighed 20st and found it very difficult but beneficial.
The gym I went to had a very sensible approach to exercise and devised me a programe of cross training (cardio & weights) and eased me into it very gently.
I did 3 minutes on a cardio machine (rowing, cycling, walking), on low settings so I was getting warm but not being thrashed, then I did 3 weights machines followed by another 3 minutes on another cardio machine. I did this until I'd worked my way around the circuit.
After a month or so, the programme would be changed with longer sessions on the cardio machines on higher settings and fewer weights machines between them: ultimately, the aim was to do one cardio to one weights machine. The good thing about a programme like that was that it was so flexible and never got boring (I can't bear the thought of half an hour pounding a treadmill).
Half the problem with exercise (in my opinion) is that people think that the overweight need to be worked HARD from the outset. It's almost like we're being 'taught a lesson' but all it does is put people off exercising altogether. People who are very overweight and haven't exercised for years (if ever) should be eased into it ... and I really believe that they key isn't just cardio, cardio, cardio but a good combination of fat burning AND muscle toning (weights) - it's the muscle that burns the fat after all so the more toned it is, the more energy it'll demand. I completely agree with you! I remember reading somewhere that 1 lb of muscle burns an extra 50 calories, just by sitting there (well, it doesn't just sit there, hence the extra calories, but I'm not going to go all 'anatomy and physiology' geek on you!). Plus, it takes up less room, so if you weigh, say, 12 stone and have a high proportion of muscle, you'll be a smaller dress size than someone who weighs 12 stone and has a higher proportion of body fat. I think sometimes we all get a bit caught up in the numbers (i include myself here, big time), and forget that no one can 'see' how much you weigh, but they can see what size you are! Also, I think women are terrified of ending up looking like a body builder. Without following a special diet and weight training heavily, this is just impossible.
I know that my sister went to a 'gung-ho' gym where they didn't even let her go near a weights machine for a month - they just thrashed her on cardio equipment until she almost felt sick ... she lasted three months:I'm not surprised, and this is unforgivable!!! But don't get me started on certain fitness trainers!!! Some are fantastic, others, sadly, are not! I went to my gym for two years before moving away.
At the moment, I'm not exercising as much as I should be. However, I'm a member of the gym at Uni and will be returning to regular workouts when I start SSing seriously again in January.
When I AM exercising regularly, I like it .... when I'm being lazy, I can't stand the thought of exercising - it's true to say that lethargy breeds lethargy!
I'd also like to do more walking: very brisk walking burns almost as much energy as jogging and is kinder to your joints.