That sounded very hard on both your parents. Like you said, somehow all things worked out though. My mum raised 4 children on her own when it wasn't fashionable to be a single parent...1950s. She worked a lot and it was chaos at home with my bullying brother and us 3 girls. I was the oldest girl so much was expected of me of course. Glad you had lots of love...I completely missed out on that one I'm afraid. I really tried hard to not repeat that pattern of parenting with my two. And thankfully they are very close and really care about each other.
Ah yes...charity shops are a wonderful source of bargains, especially if the town is quite an affluent one. The things I buy I call 'my latest acquisitions' lol.
I got several skirts during the summer, a nice small handbag and a couple of weeks ago a nice needlecord M&S skirt for £4.99!