Pregnancy and Baby Advice Thread: From Conception to Birth, and Beyond!

Thought this would be helpful to each of us with pending labours.. So we understand that little bit more what they're talking about :)

[h=1]Pregnancy terms explained[/h]Amniotic Fluid: This is the water that surrounds the baby in the uterus. Also known as Liquor and there is almost 1 litre around your baby at time of birth.
Antenatal: The time before the birth.
APH: You may never hear this term but in case you do it stands for antepartum hemorrhage and means bleeding before the birth.
BREECH. Breech presentation. This is when your baby is lying with their bum or feet down in the uterus.
BP Blood Pressure
Cephalic This means your baby is head down in the uterus.
EDD: Expected date of delivery – The expected date your baby is to make an appearance.
ENGAGED This means that the widest part of your baby’s head has moved down into the pelvis, getting ready for birth.
Episiotomy: A cut that is made in the mother’s perineum (the area between the vagina and anus) to prevent you tearing badly. Only done if absolutely necessary.
Fetus: This is the Medical name for your baby before it’s born.
Fetal heart (FH): This is your baby’s heart rate. You’ll see it being written in your chart as your pregnancy progresses.
FETAL MOVEMENT – FM You will see this being documented at every antenatal visit from 25 weeks. FMF or FM >10 in 12hrs will be written.
Fundus: This is the top of the uterus. The ‘fundal’ height helps assess the growth of the baby and how many weeks pregnant you are. The midwife or Doctor palpates the fundus to assess if baby is growing as they expect. You will see F=D on your chart or Fundus = Dates.
Haemoglobin (Hb): This is the medical term for your Iron level. Ideally we would like it to be above 10.5 gdl in pregnancy.
Hypertension: This means you’re experiencing high blood pressure.
Hypotension: This means you’re experiencing low blood pressure.
LMP: Last menstrual period. The first day of your last period is used to work out how many weeks pregnant you are.
Multigravida: A woman who has been pregnant before.
NAD: Nothing abnormal detected. The doctor or midwife may write this on your notes when they find no problems.
Occipito Anterior: When the back of your baby’s head is against the front of your pelvis. You may see LOA or ROA on your notes which means left (or right) occipito anterior and described whether the baby’s head is toward the left or the right. LOA is usually the best position for a shorter labour and an easier birth. You will see these terms on your labour notes.
Occipito Posterior: As above but the back of your baby’s head is against your back. It is also known as star gazing, your baby will be born looking up instead of down.
Oedema: This means swelling.
Palpation: When the Midwife or Doctor feels which way the baby is lying by moving their hands across your abdomen.
Perineum: The area of skin between your vagina and anus.
PIH: This means Pregnancy-Induced Hypertension, which means that your blood pressure is high.
Placenta Praevia: This means the placenta is low down in your uterus. Sometimes it covers the cervix and blocks the baby’s exit, which would mean you need a caesarean section.
Postnatal: After your baby is born.
Preterm: When the baby is born before 37 weeks of pregnancy.
Primigravida: A woman pregnant for the first time.
Quickening: Your baby’s first movements.
Rhesus (Rh): The rhesus blood group system is a way of categorising your blood type. You will be either Positive or Negative.
Rooming in: Most maternity units practice a policy of rooming in. It is now recommend that babies stay with their mums 24 hours a day. This helps with feeding and bonding.
Skin-to-skin: Skin-to-skin contact with your baby after birth (your baby is dried and put straight onto your chest).
Syntocinon: This is a manmade version of the hormone we produce ourselves for labour Oxytocin. It is routinely given in the hospital for the third stage of labour. Or it can also be used to induce you into labour.
Term: 40 Weeks
VE: Vaginal examination.
Ventouse: Vacuum delivery.(Also called KIWI delivery!) Sometimes used to help deliver the baby’s head.
VERTEX -VX: ‘The Vertex is visible’ words you want to hear! It means the top of your baby’s head is visible.
 
What a cutie pie! I love her baby grow.
Frances you have missed your calling. You should have been a midwife. Your research is excellent. :D xx
 
What a cutie pie! I love her baby grow.
Frances you have missed your calling. You should have been a midwife. Your research is excellent. :D xx

It's the aptimil weekly newsletters. They're super informative :)
 
I agree. They seem very good.

Quick question for ladies who have had babies already....how have you found your hips afterwards? Mine were fine for a little while but have had to start sleeping with a pillow between my knees again as they really hurt again the other morning. X
 
I agree. They seem very good.

Quick question for ladies who have had babies already....how have you found your hips afterwards? Mine were fine for a little while but have had to start sleeping with a pillow between my knees again as they really hurt again the other morning. X

My hips are uncomfortable too...well my whole pelvic really. Was thinking its just everything settling back in.
 
Is anyone else with young babies waking up in a sweat? I have woken up drenched the last few mornings its really horrible - is it normal?
 
Is anyone else with young babies waking up in a sweat? I have woken up drenched the last few mornings its really horrible - is it normal?

Yep, I had the awful sweats after Seth was born. It went away after a couple of weeks, totally normal apparently so the midwife said! Not nice at all though :( xxx
 
Yep especially around my chest!! Vile feeling isn't it but I think it is rather normal. X

Yep, I had the awful sweats after Seth was born. It went away after a couple of weeks, totally normal apparently so the midwife said! Not nice at all though :( xxx


Delightful isn't it :( my bladders really weak as well and a couple of times I've thought I've wet the bed, Although has turned out to he the sweats! Looking forward to this part being over that's for sure! X
 
Had the midwife round today, Bella doing great but all my stitches have come away and I have an infection, miserable doesn't cover it :( I'm just really desperate to feel normal again.. Sorry for the moan I'm just feeling really sorry for myself.
 
Had the midwife round today, Bella doing great but all my stitches have come away and I have an infection, miserable doesn't cover it :( I'm just really desperate to feel normal again.. Sorry for the moan I'm just feeling really sorry for myself.

Oh no. Poor Kim has an infection too from her stitches :(
Hope u get it cleared up soon x
 
Had the midwife round today, Bella doing great but all my stitches have come away and I have an infection, miserable doesn't cover it :( I'm just really desperate to feel normal again.. Sorry for the moan I'm just feeling really sorry for myself.

I'm not surprised you feel rubbish hun, obviously I didn't have the same stitches as you but I had my big scar to contend with so I totally get the wanting to feel normal thing. The recovery is tough even without infections to make it more difficult! Hope you're feeling better very soon. xxx
 
Had the midwife round today, Bella doing great but all my stitches have come away and I have an infection, miserable doesn't cover it :( I'm just really desperate to feel normal again.. Sorry for the moan I'm just feeling really sorry for myself.

Aww - sending hugs! I'm guessing it's an infection down below? Are you on antibiotics? Hope you feel better soon xxx
 
I'm not surprised you feel rubbish hun, obviously I didn't have the same stitches as you but I had my big scar to contend with so I totally get the wanting to feel normal thing. The recovery is tough even without infections to make it more difficult! Hope you're feeling better very soon. xxx

It's horrible isn't it - must say tho I do feel better after an afternoon of antibiotics. Xx
 
Aww - sending hugs! I'm guessing it's an infection down below? Are you on antibiotics? Hope you feel better soon xxx

Btw, congrats! How old is she? Must have missed that one! Xxx[/QUOTE

Yep :( feeling gutted as was really aware of it and tried really hard to make sure I didn't get an infection but I guess some things are just out of our control...

Ah thank you :-D she is 8 days old and called Bella - she makes it all worth while really



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Aww. Yes as you say, can't control everything which is a shame! Hope you feel better soon. Have some baby cuddles-they make everything better! Xxx
 
ok so i know every labour/pregnancy is different but is it true that your second baby is a shorter labour??? x
 
Hello!

Suzi- don't know if you have any advice, or anyone else for that matter.

Story goes likes this...

Oliver was born last Monday. That evening and Tuesday I breastfed him as I thought I was meant to. I was shown an hour after birth by one of the midwives but quite frankly I wasn't with it. I realised on Wednesday when midwife visited at home that I wasn't breastfeeding properly and Oliver was just sucking on my nipples which meant he didn't get much food and my nipples were painful. I was shown how to latch him on but once midwife left I couldn't work out how to do it. Cue a hungry baby that evening.

Another midwife came on Thursday. She showed me another hold and told me to feed Oliver on demand for no longer than 20mins per boob. I did that and basically it ended up being 5-15mins every hour. Oliver would show signs of being hungry- tongue coming out, rubbing his mouth- and then I would give Him a little feed but he would soon stop as if he was full. Due to him being hungry every hour I didn't get any sleep really.

Another midwife came on Saturday and weighed him. He had lost 1lb, 10.8% of his 9.2lb birth weight. She therefore said she was meant to refer us back to the hospital but would give us a couple more days. However we were to go on a feeding plan so to feed every 4 hours, but make sure he had at least 40min on one boob and then offer the other one up. We did this and he was weighed yesterday (2 days later) and he had gained 1oz. This is still a 10% weight loss so still concerned.

So we have now been told to substitute one night feed with formula (no more than 3oz) and for me to try expressing for 15-20mins to stimulate milk production. She felt that I may not be producing enough milk and also felt that Oliver is a lazy drinker. He will graize given the chance so just take what he needs and then falls asleep at the breast, rather than fill his belly up.

I'm following her advice and Oliver will be weighed again tomorrow but I can't help think that is goes against other advice. I thought my breast milk would increase by Oliver feeding but if I'm doing regimentally and not on demand, then how does this happen?

Has anyone else had something similar?

I thought that maybe the formula feed would be as well as, not instead of normal breast feed.

As I say I'm sticking with mw instructions, but rather confused with mixed advice.

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