Ruth's JUDDD Diary

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Oh Ruth what a nightmare. You go out your way to do a good job and that happen's. I hope your management can see that, but typical they want a scapegoat. Maybe there is a genuine reason your boss hasn't replied, I thought I'd upset my MIL last week cos she ignored my calls and texts. Turned out her phone was on silent and she couldn't find it and the battery had died while it was missing.
Hope your meeting is early so at least u can explain ASAP without having to worry all day.
That's mean of your OH. What poor excuse did he give? How long have u been together? He needs to do some serious groveling I think... Wine, flowers, treat u to pampering, etc

Hope your day turns out better than your expecting
XxX

We have been together six years in November- I have well and truly sorted him out- don't worry about that!!!
I just completely ignored him... it worked very well!

Hi Ruth,

Sorry to hear about your nightmare situation at work. Hope your meeting goes OK this morning. All you can do is be firm in your response that the door was fully closed when you left.

Men are funny creatures! I'd certainly be making him suffer for a couple of days.

WB x

Oh Im making him suffer

Thanks!!!!!!

I have told the police and everyone- they can like it or lump it!!

Hi Ruth,

You said "he broke in" - I hope the police can verify that he did this. Also, if the door did not latch properly then it hold be discussed with facilities maintenance. I hope the meeting goes well. And let's hoe they discuss with the night person his neglect.

Re: What your OH did? I don't understand this at all. I'd want a good explanation - id be very suspicious. Does he have another girlfriend somewhere? Is he embarrassed by me for some reason? Men are lazy gits - what he did took effort - there must be a reason.

He's the youngest out of all of them and we have been together quite a while for our ages- I met him when I was 15!
All of his other mates are single... maybe he wanted to be 'one of the lads'
We are very open with each other and he has quite a few personality problems so I wonder if he was anxious?

Oh, Ruth....

:bighug:

Hope today isn't nearly as bad as you're fearing. Do you need us to send someone round to give your OH a smack? More than happy to volunteer!

I have already provided the smack... thanks though :whoopass:

Send Kate - she does kickboxing!!!!

Oooerrrr! Im worried now!!!

Awww Ruth, wish I could give you a real one but this will have to do :bighug:
I hope the meeting goes well for you in work but I do know how it feels, I won't go into it all but when I was on duty in a care home I worked in one of the residents decided to climb out of his window and go for a walkabout, as I was in charge I was blamed, I had done my hourly rounds , all security measures were taken, why he decided to climb out through his window I have no idea he was fully 'with it' but it turns out there should have been retainers on the windows but this was glanced over and I was made a scapegoat, unless I was in the room with him when it happened I had no way of knowing???? Anyway I left not long after as I lost all respect for those running the home for heaping the blame on me, if they had retainers he couldn't have got out???
Anyway I really hope they see sense and it all works out for you chick. As for your OH I assume these new mates are single? Perhaps they think its uncool to have a live in girlfriend, men are so much more immature than women. I would be cross with him though for trying to fit in with them

Oh Jo thats awful :bighug:
You should never have been blamed!!

You have hit the nail on the head with my OH, youngest and only one with a Gf!

Sorry, Jo - I did mean to type Ruth's name in that post (what a dufus I am!) - must have confused you a bit!

Ruth hun hope the meeting went OK xx

Thanks!!!! I was VVVVVV cross by the end of it!!!

Line all these people up and we'll take our dd stress out on them :copon:

17 lost : 50 to goal

Tooo damn right! :whoopass: :whoopass:!!!!!

Poor you! Sounds horrible. How's your day going? I really hope they see your position at work rather than looking for a scapegoat

(on a separate, rather frivolous note, you're the first person I have ever "met" who doesn't like Sunday roasts!!!)

Thinking of you x

I just dont find them tasty lol!!!!! EEEEK! Maybe I shouldn't have kept my mouth shut

Im going to have to grow some b**ls at work and tell them what I really think

I'm getting out of here incase it's catching

Hi Ruth. I'm propping my eyes open with matchsticks waiting to find out how things went for u at work today. I'm hoping no news is good news
XxX

Sorry for not replying eeeek!!! I am seeing my boss tomorrow so we will see.....

I'm waiting, too. I hope you're okay.

Im ok thanks Mel, sorry for not replying!

Morning my little chicken, been thinking of you, hope you are ok xxx

Hey Jo! Have missed you- Im ok thanks!! Hope you are too!

Good morning, I hope everything went ok yesterday x

On reflection it could have been a LOT worse... Thanks for the comment, hope you're ok!

Thinking of you. I hope you're well.

Thanks Mel- hope you're ok too!

Hi Ruth. Hope you are ok.

I need your Beavers expertise. My son only started Beavers after Easter when he had turned 6 years, but tonight he is becoming an official Beaver and they are having a little ceremony I believe. Then he will be allowed a scarf and woggle I think.
Does this process have a name? I'm sure it must have but I've been trawling the web and can't find what it is. Thanks
XxX

Its called being Invested!
He will get a necker a woggle and a set of badges as well as a certificate!

This is where they all go- http://www.2ndsohamscouts.org.uk/Beaver%20Web/Beaver%20Pictures/uniform-cl-bea.gif

OOOOH getting worried now, hope you are OK xxx

Im good thanks Jo, hope that you and your family are well

I know, where r u? Xx

Im back now just been unwell Hope you're feeling better!!!

Earthhhhh to ruthhhh!!!?? Hope eveythings ok xxx

Im back Stef lol Hope you're ok! Have you got anything sorted with the Docs about your hair?

Thanks for the replies and well wishes everyone

I am loved!

Ruth
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Diet wise yesterday was a bit odd but except that im doing fine
Yesterday I had some garlic bread, a few crisps and a bit of white chocolate...

I had to eat before they'd even consider letting me go...

Just laid on the sofa watching CSI- they've referred me back to my Doctor about my diet plan- they want someone to talk to me as its not safe...

Hmmm... :/

Ruth
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I hope you're better now. I'm glad her boss sorted your boss. No proof - how dare she assume.

Unfortunately she likes to do everyones jobs for them and show them up but she can't do mine as she isnt qualified and she doesn't like it!
She's a manager within the Hotel...

Too many managers and too much authority...

Hope you're ok!

Ruth
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Sat in Docs....

Will let you know how the appointment goes!!!!

Ruth
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Well,

Apparently this plan would be a lot better when I have lost more weight and that I should be looking at Exante/CD or something similar to train my body better and that the difference in calories from <500 to 2000> is not agreeing with me and upsetting my stomach due to excessive acid.

I also got told off for not looking after myself and I should know better...

I hate my life sometimes

Ruth
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[bajoleth]

Oh Ruth I am so sorry you have not been well, I can't believe Drs were encouraging you to go on a VLCD you would swear you were massively overweight which you aren't.
Oh no to your GP today too, what are you going to do, does this mean we are losing you, and YES you are loved, we all love you, you are our little Ruth xxxxx

 

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Oh Ruth I am so sorry you have not been well, I can't believe Drs were encouraging you to go on a VLCD you would swear you were massively overweight which you aren't.
Oh no to your GP today too, what are you going to do, does this mean we are losing you, and YES you are loved, we all love you, you are our little Ruth xxxxx

Oh Jo

I can't go and fail something else :'(
I know I'll just put it all back on

I love it here- I have never felt so at home- I did tell them this, but they said I need a boost to get myself healthier and then I can come back to this when I have sorted myself out as the majority of my health issues are to do with the fact that I am a serial yo yo-er!



Ruth
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[MinnieMel]

We're not losing Ruth... She can have her diary moved by a moderator to the members only section and we can support her there and vice versa.

 

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We're not losing Ruth... She can have her diary moved by a moderator to the members only section and we can support her there and vice versa.

I reaaalllyyyy don't want to go!
I love it here!!!

I could have my diary moved yep I would miss you all millions

Ruth
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[MinnieMel]

I reaaalllyyyy don't want to go!
I love it here!!!

I could have my diary moved yep I would miss you all millions

Ruth
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If you are moved and we are subscribed, then we'd still have your diary in our subscriptions.

 

[bajoleth]

I know you have to do what is best health wise I just think by your GP encouraging you to change diet she is perpetuating the yoyo effect but hey what do I know, and no we won't lose her as we will stalk her wherever she is lol xxx

 

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I will keep my diary!!!! Im never letting go of that!

I just have never done a VLCD before so I don't know where to start to research... I have heard v bad things about exante!

Ruth
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[MinnieMel]

I will keep my diary!!!! Im never letting go of that!

I just have never done a VLCD before so I don't know where to start to research... I have heard v bad things about exante!

Ruth
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I think Slim and Save is a good option for you. It is three products and a protein and 200 g of veg (lie broccoli) per day. It s very affordable compared to many other VLCDs and the deliver it to your door. This should be easier than JUDDD for you. It is low carb - and you'll find the weight comes off pretty fast.

 

[stef2009]

Sorry to hear all that's going on Ruth

Hope U feel better soon!!!

As for vlcd, I agree with jo I'm shocked a doctor is encouraging it, u Dnt find many!!!

I have tried a couple of vlcds and in my opinion s&s was by far the most enjoyable, and cheapest!

Really hope everything gets better soon for u xxx

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[bajoleth]

I did slim n save and if you are going to do one its about the cheapest and has the most variety but I have to say I would go back to your GP and insist on being referred to a dietitian, I really don't think a VLCD is what you need hun, they are completely full on there are no half measures, if your GP is worried about your Yo yo ing aVLCD is just about the worst thing as it is so easy to fail as they are very hard to stick to for a length of time, think long and Hard Ruth but I think a dietitian is the answer x

 

[fizzyfluff]

I don't get it, you have had brilliant losses here, surely they should be happy that you've got your groove on to something that's working for you!!

To be honest I blame vlcds for my tummy problems. I developed really bad constipation (common complaint) and now can't really go solo and get bloated with bread etc.

17 lost : 50 to goal

 

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I agree this is all ridiculous!!!!

I do understand in some ways but in others I know im doing well- my mate has asked me to go to a CD meeting with her tomorrow but im not too keen... Although I suppose it can't hurt to find out some info
Going to get another appointment at the Docs, have tried to see a dietician before but never got anywhere- im putting my foot down!!!!!

What a rubbish end to a rubbish day

Ruth
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[bajoleth]

Go to the meeting, no harm in that BUT see a dietitian before you get started on any VLCD I can no longer do them because of the high protein content as I have damaged Kidneys, Stef on here is losing her hair, a girl I know from the School had this happen too!! So yes they are a solution for some and weight loss is quick but they are not without their side effects, I am not saying any of this because I don't want you to leave Juddd I am saying it because I care and you have done so well I don't want it all to be in vain or for you to start something that In my humble opinion you don't need xx

 

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Go to the meeting, no harm in that BUT see a dietitian before you get started on any VLCD I can no longer do them because of the high protein content as I have damaged Kidneys, Stef on here is losing her hair, a girl I know from the School had this happen too!! So yes they are a solution for some and weight loss is quick but they are not without their side effects, I am not saying any of this because I don't want you to leave Juddd I am saying it because I care and you have done so well I don't want it all to be in vain or for you to start something that In my humble opinion you don't need xx

I couldn't agree more with you- If they think I need it then surely they only think I need it to get to just over 11 Stone?
I told them I wouldn't give JUDDD up I would like it for the extra few lbs and maintenance as I think its wonderful!

I really don't want to lose my hair or become unwell

I know you all care and I really do feel so loved- I feel like being naughty and ignoring it!!!
However I don't know any other 21 year olds with as many health complaints as I have :/

And I don't have the choice of foods, any alcohol or flexibility :S

Pros/cons- I need some scales to weigh this out!!!!!

Thanks Jo- you're worth your weight in gold to all of us!!! We love you

Ruth
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[stef2009]

Yeah I've lost a lot of hair, actially getting bald patches! don't get me wrong s&s got me where I am today, I've gone from nearly 16 stone to in the 11s but as soon as my hair started to fall out that was the end for me! I havnt been on it for 2 months now and it's still rapidly falling out!!

But some ppl are fine on them!

I cnt see any stats on here Ruth what do u weigh at the moment? Xxx

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