BexT89
Full Member
Oh Jean, don't give up! You're not just a pig or a failure!!! There will be a reason why you are more tempted to the naughtier things, even if it just sounds like an excuse, it isn't it's your reason!!!I'm such a failure. I've gained 2lb. No chance of meeting my target and it was only and small target. No excuses for it, I'm just a pig. Thinking about just accepting myself looking like this because it has been 6 years now.
I'm a boredom and comfort eater, if I stay up too late I eat lots of junk, when I'm feeling down in the dumps/stressed/anxious, I go looking for the snacks.
I tried doing SW twice before, both times after having had my children. It wasn't the right time for me, I didn't have the willpower to focus on my eating aswell as all the highs and lows of a lovely newborn!
In May this year, I got to a point where I was struggling to run around with my kids, I was beginning to push my partner away as I didn't like myself and that's when I knew it was time for me to do something and so far I've stuck to it. But that's because it's the right time for ME and ive told myself that no matter how long it takes, whether I gain alot then lose alot or maintain for ages, I have to stick to it.
1-3yrs ago I couldn't do that tho and maybe that's where u are now?
I hope I don't sound preachy as I don't want to, I just know that I've sat there in groups before and gained and gave up as I felt the same way.
Xxx