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Surfhunny
Laugh in the face of food
I've just left Mum and Dads because my cousin is driving me insane 
he's so bloody irritating!! My uncle (his dad) is one of the loveliest people but Matt is a big twit!! He's 28, never done a days work in his life because "there are no jobs". He's full of obnoxious opinions about everything, and I meant every single thing.we can't even watch tv without a running commentary of his opinions. Grrr. I don't normally tolerate him but feel I have to because it's a difficult time. Aaaaargh!!!
I feel bad for just walking out but it was that or start an argument with him, and that's not fair. Especially as he winds everyone else up too. My brother is spending more time away from home because of him. They're going home tomorrow and coming back for the funeral. I don't know how my mum hasn't said anything to him, while he's been here he's made no effort to do any washing up or help with anything, I know he's a guest but politeness costs nothing.
Rant over, I seem like such a b1tch but of you knew him you'd see I'm not
he's so bloody irritating!! My uncle (his dad) is one of the loveliest people but Matt is a big twit!! He's 28, never done a days work in his life because "there are no jobs". He's full of obnoxious opinions about everything, and I meant every single thing.we can't even watch tv without a running commentary of his opinions. Grrr. I don't normally tolerate him but feel I have to because it's a difficult time. Aaaaargh!!!I feel bad for just walking out but it was that or start an argument with him, and that's not fair. Especially as he winds everyone else up too. My brother is spending more time away from home because of him. They're going home tomorrow and coming back for the funeral. I don't know how my mum hasn't said anything to him, while he's been here he's made no effort to do any washing up or help with anything, I know he's a guest but politeness costs nothing.
Rant over, I seem like such a b1tch but of you knew him you'd see I'm not
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you are right!I've just left Mum and Dads because my cousin is driving me insane
I feel bad for just walking out but it was that or start an argument with him, and that's not fair. Especially as he winds everyone else up too. My brother is spending more time away from home because of him. They're going home tomorrow and coming back for the funeral. I don't know how my mum hasn't said anything to him, while he's been here he's made no effort to do any washing up or help with anything, I know he's a guest but politeness costs nothing.
Rant over, I seem like such a b1tch but of you knew him you'd see I'm not
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hi surf! hope you're having a great tuesday and things have calmed down a bit!
Surfhunny
Laugh in the face of food
Been having a little think tonight about what's holding me back with CD at the moment and it's the sodding water!!! I'm more than happy to get on with the shakes but it's the water that's putting me off. I find it such a struggle to drink enough. Especially when I'm at home, I forget and at work I just can't so I'm left forcing down about half of my daily intake when I get home from work.
It's really holding me back and I need some kind of plan to get round it. I'll knock the tea and coffee on the head at break times and try and get 500mls of water down me then. Bleugh I hate that vast quantity of water, a glass now and then is lovely but 3+ litres, not so much
It's really holding me back and I need some kind of plan to get round it. I'll knock the tea and coffee on the head at break times and try and get 500mls of water down me then. Bleugh I hate that vast quantity of water, a glass now and then is lovely but 3+ litres, not so much
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Why not do what I'm doing. Pint when you get up. Pint at break time. Make your shakes up with more do you're adding 250ml to them and then 2 pints at night. It works out as 5 pints which is 1 above what the basic allowance is. Any more is then a bonus!
MinnieMel
Why Be Normal?
Been having a little think tonight about what's holding me back with CD at the moment and it's the sodding water!!! I'm more than happy to get on with the shakes but it's the water that's putting me off. I find it such a struggle to drink enough. Especially when I'm at home, I forget and at work I just can't so I'm left forcing down about half of my daily intake when I get home from work.
It's really holding me back and I need some kind of plan to get round it. I'll knock the tea and coffee on the head at break times and try and get 500mls of water down me then. Bleugh I hate that vast quantity of water, a glass now and then is lovely but 3+ litres, not so much
I am not getting the water in -- and the scales are showing it. I did have a STS (I weighed this morning). *SIGH*
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you can do this! you can!
shini
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It's always hard trying to get back on diet !! Since new year I've done the same trying n trying !! But just had enough of feeling sorry for my self, snapped out of it n now on day 4, it's never easy but u can do it ... I had no problem drinking water, just could not stop picking at food.. So now I've set my self a goal Monday will be a day off. N that has kept me going !! After Monday off , my next goal is V day lol .. So me n hubby can go for a lovely meal.. After all I want to look my best n wil keep looking forward to my days off n it really motivates me!! Good luck xxx
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hi sally
just catching up!
night sally
just catching up!
night sally
Surfhunny
Laugh in the face of food
Hi and thanks, Shini, Mel and Nikki. Yet another poopy day, im drowning here I can't even get through one day. Not been hugely bad just not at all on plan. I'm starting to wonder if this is it, the end of CD? I start each day positive and ready to try again but by tea time I've had enough and can justify not dieting. Im so fed up!
I feel like I've had to be so strong for my family that I haven't been able to let myself grieve and now I'm back at work I feel like I have no one to turn to in my real life, mum and dad have each other, my bro has my SIL, everyone has their husbands/wives/partners for support and I'm all alone. It's so hard not to dwell on that feeling at the moment. It's a sh!tty time to be single.
I can't even get through one day. Not been hugely bad just not at all on plan. I'm starting to wonder if this is it, the end of CD? I start each day positive and ready to try again but by tea time I've had enough and can justify not dieting. Im so fed up!I feel like I've had to be so strong for my family that I haven't been able to let myself grieve and now I'm back at work I feel like I have no one to turn to in my real life, mum and dad have each other, my bro has my SIL, everyone has their husbands/wives/partners for support and I'm all alone. It's so hard not to dwell on that feeling at the moment. It's a sh!tty time to be single.
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hi sally
i've been so busy that i'm trying to catch up. was in bed and asleep by 9.20 last night after my toning course. so full on!
hope you're battle with your weight is going ok. i know you find it hard to be alone but you're not. you have us and you have your parents, who will not want you to be feeling the way you are! go and be with them even if it's for company. HUGS!
i've been so busy that i'm trying to catch up. was in bed and asleep by 9.20 last night after my toning course. so full on!
hope you're battle with your weight is going ok. i know you find it hard to be alone but you're not. you have us and you have your parents, who will not want you to be feeling the way you are! go and be with them even if it's for company. HUGS!
MinnieMel
Why Be Normal?
More hugs, Sal! (((((HUGS)))))
I wish there was something I can do to help, but losing your nan s*cks and feeling that you have to be the strong one does not help one iota. However, sometimes it can be worse being with someone who does not "get it", then being on your own.
I wish there was something I can do to help, but losing your nan s*cks and feeling that you have to be the strong one does not help one iota. However, sometimes it can be worse being with someone who does not "get it", then being on your own.
