ellen83
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It is! lol It must drive you mad all day :giggle:
It does... Are you in the morning?
It is! lol It must drive you mad all day :giggle:
It does... Are you in the morning?
Yep, Saturday morning, and as Rozie would say, I WI nekid lol I don't go to group anymore Ellen, the consultant change the time of her meetings and I'm always at work during week days, so I couldn't go anymore. I'm not too bothered though, cos she wasn't much cop lol
I would weigh in nekid, but don't think group would want to see that!
I like my consultant. I also really like my group, a group of us are even doing the moonwalk in July! Should be fun (well as fun as walking 13 miles can be lol)
Morning all, well only 10.30 and done in already!!! Have had two meetings in two days about students with eating disorders, it makes me so sad. I work in the Performing Arts Department of a college and am in charge of the pastoral care and the tutorial programe...bit like the old PSHE classes, sexual health, drug and alcohol education (Corky stop giggling!!) all of the embarrasing things the other lecturers don't want to talk about...that's me!! Basically I'm Mum to 200 students.....and most of the other lecturers!! The amount of students I deal with who have issues with food is unbelievable, have thought so many times that what they need is a good SW group!!! Most of the students are educated about nutrition and healthy diet within their course, they have a unit called "healthy performer" but the pressure they feel to look a certain way over powers the need to be healthy, I feel terrible for the girls that aren't eating...but the overeaters just make me want to cry.....I suppose because I identify with them. Some of the lecturers don't get it either, the anorexic's yes they get it, the over eaters it's just pull yourself together...stop eating so much...exercise more.....they, I have to tell you, are all very slim and I know have never had to worry about gaining weight, so so frustrating!!!! Sorry rant over....just thought some of you lovely people would understand!!
I take my daughter with me to group. She goes free on the free2go programme if I pay. I always say to her it's her choice if she weighs etc but she always does. She loves the group and it's great to put her in control of her eating instead of me IYSWIM. She was on the 91 st centile and I had a letter as they weighed them at school. I didnt tell her about the letter as I thought it would do more harm than good. I saw my gp on my own about it and she told me about it. The gp said to either get her to maintain til she's taller or lose half a stone while shes growing and thats exactly what she has done. She had a very unhealthy relationship with food, just stuffing like there wasnt another meal and she did have good reason to do that due to her background but she has stopped doing that now and has learnt to make meals out of the magazine instead of the stupid stuff they did at school (biscuits, muffins etc) and now at 12 is back fitting into the teen clothes instead ladies sizes.
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Lucia, your daughter sounds alot like my eldest, she is overweight which worries me but we are all doing the SW diet and she knows we are being healthy but doesnt know she is actively watching her weight if you know what i mean. My daughter will be 12 next month and she has lost 8lbs in 6 weeks which i think is a great steady speed, she is wearing a ladies size 14/16 still which i really would like to get down some more, she is quite tall for her age 5ft 2(almost) so doesnt look as big as she is, but her friends are all alot smaller, im very aware of it but her and her friends dont seem to notice at all which is lovely. Can i ask about how you do the Free2go as when i was at meetings my consultant was rubbish , so i have been giving her 3 x A choices 3 x B choices lots of free food and superfree foods and up to 10-15 syns a day. as its working would you say this is alright or do you have any other tips for me. She also comes to the gym 3 times a week and comes swimming 3 times a week with me, we all go as a family. sorry for all the questions but it sounds like your daughter is where im trying to get mine too
Well done Lucia, it's so difficult isn't it to know what to do for the best, I do it for a living but I still struggle with my own lovelies!! My eldest daughter is very very like me physically and in her attitude for food. She is almost exactly the same shape as me when I was her age, we both go in and out in the right places, big bust, little waist, ample bottom, heavy in the thigh. She is probably a stone or so over weight but looks lovely. I just worry that she will end up very over weight like me if she continues to eat the amount she does, she cooks and eats healthily but she , like me, is a comfort eater. She came to SW with me last time and lost a stone, she was also going to aerobics and pilates several times a week and she loved it. You can't say anything to her about it because she get's upset!! My youngest was very slim, more like my ex husband, lovely legs, flat chest (which she hates!) but since she started work and turned eighteen and started going out (she's our party animal, that's like me!!) she has plumped up, just drinking and chaotic eating, she's comfortable with it though which is great. I always say though you can't have everything, Romi would like India's legs and India would like Romi's boobs, just be grateful you each got something your really happy with!! I am hoping that me finally losing the weight and permanantly changing my eating habits will have a positive effect on Romi, I know that when they were little treats and fun times always revolved around food so I have not always helped, and she watched me comfort eat through difficult times, in fact in a way they comfort eat with me, take aways when I was too exhasted to think about what to eat, chocolate and crisps in the cupboard at all times!!! Bad Mummy!!! xxxx
Roziee said:hey girls.. did i tell you that i put on 1.15 lbs this week
Lol no i shouldn't be grinnin but i knew it was going to happen.. i think i've updated my own stats Lol
this week i wanna lose a bazillion lbs
No, I don't think a nekid WI would go down very well at group :giggle: You could try it though One sure way of getting into the 17's lol
You're lucky to have such a good group I really liked the other people at group, we had a good laugh and got on well. We even used to go on nights out last time I was a member. They were such good nights I do miss them actually
Roziee said:ooooo london is great If you werent on sw id tell you all the naughty places to go and eat (especially the dessert places) but i dont want to ruin your weight loss
Thanks for all the words of encouragement. I managed to stop a binge in its tracks and only ate a handful of buttons out of a big bag and a small bag of doritos. God knows I wanted to eat and eat but I have to stop associating comfort with food. Like us all, I suppose!
Even OH has said that before Xmas my losses were flying and since I seem to be stuck in a rut, even with the added body magic.
I'll try this week with no cereal bars, and just have toast and fruit for breakfast instead. It could be a thing where I'm actually not eating enough, do you think?
Roziee you've been keeping an eye on my food diary, what do you think?
xMandyDx said:Feeling a little bit crushed right now. Had a STS this week. I can't work it out. I've been good food-wise, kept under my syns, snacked on superfree...
I know I upped my exercise and water but this is the third week of that and my body has surely adjusted by now. The only thing I can think of is that I've changed from bread to alpen light bars since Xmas and since Xmas my losses haven't been so great. Connection?
I might be tempted if I don't see the numbers I want lol.
There are some fab ladies in our group. I have made really good friends with a couple of them. One of them is coming to try on wedding dresses with me at the end of the month and we are off to London for the night for a concert (was meant to be going with OH but due to the boys we thought it best if one of us stayed here) The best thing is due to the job she has she has managed to get us free train tickets AND a free hotel!!!! I think I may love her... almost compensates for my broken windscreen!
:wow: I could do with a friend like that! lol
Weigh in last night and I lost 5.5lbs so 25 in total now for 2012
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