2015 and It's Now or Never!

:whoopass: for sighing yourself out.:)

Not quite sure what you mean by that Cg but I can tell you it was much more than a sigh!

Saturday 25th January 2014

Well... last Wednesday I had an appointment at the community hospital to see the physio about my back as I wanted an explanation of all the pros and cons regarding my spinal problem but apart from waking up with extremely bad pain there I also had a rather dull ache in the top of my chest which tbh I really didn't take much notice of at the time. Having successful gone to my app I then went on to get a few things from Tesco and found that I was kept waiting quite some time at the cash desk and so decided to stop and have a cuppa in the Costa Café to ease my back. The next thing I knew everything seemed to be in a tunnel and I felt extremely cold but sweating profusely and when I tried to take off my coat I couldn't move. I then thought I must let someone know that I need help but when I spoke to a lady on the next table my voice came out as a whisper. Thankfully she just happened to turn round at that moment and could see that I was in distress and came over and sat with me and called the ambulance bless her!
Having been rushed to the N&N hospital I was duly processed by all those lovely dedicated peeps and first of all told that I had had a heart attack but then they later decided that I actually needed a pacemaker as the pulses were not working right. So then I was passed thro' to the Acute Medical Unit where they decide whether to send you home or send to a ward. However, 24hrs later and I am still on AMU whilst numerous peeps are going hither, thither and yon and I am having to listen to all this pandemonium of beds being wheeled in and out, docs talking and sometimes shouting and other machines beeping, donging etc. etc. and the final straw was a young girl who screamed every time somebody touched her and of course this going on 24/7 without a break! I then asked the sister in charge and was told that they were trying to decide whether to do my procedure as an out patient or in patient so I said I wanted to go home and would wait for them to call me back.
That was the start of the most horrendous situation as the next day (Fri) I kept putting my point as forcefully and determinedly to as many as possible without ever being taken seriously and they continually just brushed me off. After lunch I got my clothes and went into the loo and got dressed and as I came out asked one of the nurses to remove the cannula from my arm so I could go home. From then on I was cajoled, lied to and even one of them asked if I was mentally capable of making my own decisions! They continually blocked my path so I couldn't leave and eventually (no doubt having contacted others) I was told they were ready for me to go and have my heart scan. All my belongings were put on my bed and I was wheeled off and had the heart scan only to be returned back to AMU!! and not to a ward as I had been told. I was informed that the scan went well and there were no problems so I said "great, so I'll go home now and you can call me back at a later date!" Off started all this hoo-ha again and no matter what I said they just would not let me leave even tho' I had quite calmly said I was quite willing to sign to say I accepted all responsibility for my actions.
After another 1/2 hour they the said that they were sending for me to have my pacemaker procedure done and so off I was trollied to the OR dept only to find that no.. they couldn't do it at that precise time but they were looking to find me a bed somewhere so I realised that they had just shifted me to another dept just to keep me there. I still kept insisting that I wanted to go home and after much of the same with these two bods I finally told them that I was seriously considering suing the hospital for keeping me against my will and that's when they decided that they would let me go! Even then he insisted that he would have to wait for a form to be brought for me to fill in and I would have to speak to the registrar which could take a little while.. I pointed out that I would wait 30mins and after that and nothing transpired I got up and informed him I was off. He presented me with a small paper to sign and that was it..apart from some rather sardonic remarks about don't forget to come back!
If this seems like a long saga I can tell you that living it was like being in prison.. not that I've been in prison.. but you get my drift!

Today I have a streaming cold to finish off a perfect week!!
 
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Read signing not sighing I think from Mary! And I sort of agree with her.
But it sounds as though you've had a bit of a nightmare at the hospital.
More than a bit really - looks like a lot.

Mum spent 2 days in the AMU when she was first admitted.
It was dreadful - never saw the same doc twice, nurses couldn't answer my questions and couldn't be bothered to even look in her notes.
One finally looked when I picked them up myself and started rifling through them.

I think the NHS is in chaos - which is a real shame.

Take care of yourself chica - and don't do too much.
 
Read signing not sighing I think from Mary! And I sort of agree with her.
But it sounds as though you've had a bit of a nightmare at the hospital.
More than a bit really - looks like a lot.

Mum spent 2 days in the AMU when she was first admitted.
It was dreadful - never saw the same doc twice, nurses couldn't answer my questions and couldn't be bothered to even look in her notes.
One finally looked when I picked them up myself and started rifling through them.

I think the NHS is in chaos - which is a real shame.

Take care of yourself chica - and don't do too much.

Sorry it was suppose to read signing.


I see why you signed yourself out.I think I would of to.:)

Take things easy and if you don't feel too well you must phone for a dr.:)

I see now.. but I only did that after they had admitted that I was or could be treated as an out patient anyway and that my heart scan had showed things there were okay as well.
I must admit that the docs and nurses for the most part were very thorough in their treatment and attention but sometimes they take their position too far.

Went and collected my car from Tesco where it had been since Wednesday but tomorrow I shall be having a lazy relaxing day for sure!
 
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Heavens Emm - what a situation. I hope you are feeling OK at home. When will they contact you, and do you have someone nearby that you can get in touch with if you need to ?
 
Enjoy your lazy day.:)

Thanks Cg.. and I certainly will.. :zz:

Heavens Emm - what a situation. I hope you are feeling OK at home. When will they contact you, and do you have someone nearby that you can get in touch with if you need to ?

I shall have to wait and see when they get around to contacting me but I won't be at all surprised if it's not for some time! I am on a home alarm system and have a wrist band with a button to press if needs be so all okay on that front thanks Nelli.

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http://www.minimins.com/weight-loss-diary/308799-2014-still-rolling-along.html
 
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Glad you have a way of getting help quickly if you need to in the circumstances. hope they get back to you fairly quickly and that meanwhile you are feeling OK
 
Monday 27th January 2014

WI today and I've gained 1lb which is quite okay with me.
I'm not going to try to lose any more weight for the time being but I shall keep logging my intake so I don't start putting weight back on again.

Went out to lunch at Morrisons but when my dinner arrived I could only eat a couple of mouthfuls and that was it so I asked for a container so I could bring it home with me.
Then went to N&N Hospital and had the blood test that my doc wanted me to get and then to the patients service dept to collect my money and credit cards.
Rather strangely I kept thinking whether I was feeling okay and almost imagining I was about to faint again so it was quite a relief when I eventually got home again.

Had an incident in the hospital car park... I was waiting for another car to pull out of a parking spot which was just near the entrance gates and most cars as they gradually drove in saw me and drove round and past even tho' some were not very happy about where I was stopped. Then a man came zooming in and almost hit me in the back of my car and proceeded to wave and shout and gesture for me to get out of the way which I refused to do pointing to where I was waiting to go. He eventually backed up and went around me shouting all the time and even when I had parked up and he was walking into the hospital he continued to give me verbal abuse but I just shouted back.."Shut up you silly man!" .. all makes for an exciting existence doesn't it?! .. :D
 
Hi Em!

Found you after I'd read you'd been poorly. I'm glad you were feeling well enough to orchestrate a jailbreak. ;)

I was glad to read that you have a home alarm. I don't blame you for wanting to leave -- that hospital is probably where you caught that cold. I think you might want to let your own GP know about your hospital visit - if he doesn't know. He might be able yo follow up with further care.

I'm so relieved you coughed up that carrot. I've had a near drowning experience as a child -- and as an asthmatic -- I have never experienced anything as distressing as not being able to breathe. (((((HUGS)))))

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Don't know how to take a photo without getting the glare back but this I took about a day or so before my visit to hospital and I was feeling pretty good and had one of those "slim" feeling days!

http://www.minimins.com/weight-loss-diary/308799-2014-still-rolling-along.html

I think if you turn your phone's flash off - you'd get a better picture.

Monday 27th January 2014

WI today and I've gained 1lb which is quite okay with me.
I'm not going to try to lose any more weight for the time being but I shall keep logging my intake so I don't start putting weight back on again.

Went out to lunch at Morrisons but when my dinner arrived I could only eat a couple of mouthfuls and that was it so I asked for a container so I could bring it home with me.
Then went to N&N Hospital and had the blood test that my doc wanted me to get and then to the patients service dept to collect my money and credit cards.
Rather strangely I kept thinking whether I was feeling okay and almost imagining I was about to faint again so it was quite a relief when I eventually got home again.

Had an incident in the hospital car park... I was waiting for another car to pull out of a parking spot which was just near the entrance gates and most cars as they gradually drove in saw me and drove round and past even tho' some were not very happy about where I was stopped. Then a man came zooming in and almost hit me in the back of my car and proceeded to wave and shout and gesture for me to get out of the way which I refused to do pointing to where I was waiting to go. He eventually backed up and went around me shouting all the time and even when I had parked up and he was walking into the hospital he continued to give me verbal abuse but I just shouted back.."Shut up you silly man!" .. all makes for an exciting existence doesn't it?! .. :D

Oh the faint feeling -- not good. Please don't drive when you're feeling that way.

What a Git. When I've had a man be rude like that to me... I give my best shocked look and say, "What would your mother think of your behavior? How would you like someone to speak to your mother, wife, sister or daughter like that?"

I guess it's the Yin/Yang thing -- lovely lady helped you when you fell ill and idiot was rude in car park. Balance is restored.

I hope you managed to be lazy!
 
Hi Emm!

Found you after I'd read you'd been poorly. I'm glad you were feeling well enough to orchestrate a jailbreak. ;)

I was glad to read that you have a home alarm. I don't blame you for wanting to leave -- that hospital is probably where you caught that cold. I think you might want to let your own GP know about your hospital visit - if he doesn't know. He might be able yo follow up with further care.

I'm so relieved you coughed up that carrot. I've had a near drowning experience as a child -- and as an asthmatic -- I have never experienced anything as distressing as not being able to breathe. (((((HUGS)))))

I think if you turn your phone's flash off - you'd get a better picture.

Oh the faint feeling -- not good. Please don't drive when you're feeling that way.

What a Git. When I've had a man be rude like that to me... I give my best shocked look and say, "What would your mother think of your behavior? How would you like someone to speak to your mother, wife, sister or daughter like that?"

I guess it's the Yin/Yang thing -- lovely lady helped you when you fell ill and idiot was rude in car park. Balance is restored.

I hope you managed to be lazy!

Thanks Mel! Your visit has really made my day!

It is the most exasperating feeling when you cannot get anyone to take things seriously but keep being very patronising all the time.

I did think about turning off the flash but it's a very dark hallway.. I will try that.. and the faintness bit.. I only meant that I kept imagining it. :D
 
Evening Em,

I'm glad you weren't really faint. And M is right -- that's a lovely color.
 
Hi Emm - just checking in to see how you are. How horrible was that man - some people just won't give others the time of day. I agree with Mel that you have to be careful driving if you are not feeling 100%, though I am guessing that not being able to get out would be a nightmare for you.

Hope it's not too cold and wet in Norwich.
 
Hi Emm - just checking in to see how you are. How horrible was that man - some people just won't give others the time of day. I agree with Mel that you have to be careful driving if you are not feeling 100%, though I am guessing that not being able to get out would be a nightmare for you.

Hope it's not too cold and wet in Norwich.

Hi Nelli, I always make a point of not driving if I am really feeling poorly with my back especially and if I've taken a lot of painkillers too.
Weather here has been quite nice.. not a smidgeon of rain and sun beaming for most of the day.

Tuesday 28th January 2014

Busy, busy all day much to my surprise and amazement as the ole bones weren't too good first thing. However, changed my bed linen and put in the wash plus everything else I could lay my hands on to give a nice refresher if nothing else.
Also made a stew from the chicken lunch I brought home yesterday and it was really delicious... added 3 small dumplings as well..yummy!
Recorded my "exercise" which I don't usually bother to but as I've been quite active it was nice to have the extra cals.

Gas service man called this afternoon and I had my heating on but forgot it would be rather much for him.. :d'oh: .. he didn't comment on it at all but I did notice a large trickle of sweat on his forehead as he left..
:giggle:

E-mail from handy Andy to say that he is now awaiting further surgery to his knee and doesn't know what he will be doing for the next six months or so which has given me second thoughts about bothering to have my bathroom done. It's really not very bad except for a few damp blotches on the walls...and I can think of better things to do with my money.

Well..after that hectic day I am well ready for my bed!
 
Evening! It sounds as if you had a busy day.
 
Hi Em!
 
Wednesday 29th January 2014

Another good day.. and full of beans.. :bliss:
Home help came this afternoon and it was nice to have a good ol' natter and laugh.

My stew was delicious again and I made four suet dumplings to go with it but two was quite sufficient.

Breakfast - Oats 40g + Honey 1/2Tblsn
Lunch - Bread 34g + Cheese 33g
Snack - Digestive Biscuits 2
Dinner - Chicken stew + Suet Dumplings 2
Supper - Finn Crisps 4 + L.C.Cheese 1 & Milk 125ml + Galaxy Hot Choc 15g
Extra - Milk 240ml

Cals 1233 Carbs 141 Fat 35 Protein 59 Sugars 56 Fibre 16
 
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