Blergh! - FatFairNForty(ish) - my diary

I'm fuming! Boss from Job 2 has emailed me a 'letter of dismissal' !!! I have replied with suitable vitriole and pointing out that you can't actually sack someone without any notice and when off sick and without actually giving them some kind of warning! I am so cross! It doesn't make much odds as I have resigned., but I am fuming at what he put in the letter as yesterday he was singing my praises but saying the 2 jobs were too much for me and the only reason they wouldn't employ me full time is because they couldn't afford to! So how can he now send me a letter listing concerns that I was merrily oblivious to!????

Spoke to S about it and he said to call CAB and get advice , but you know what, I won't. I don't want the aggro and hassle and I really don't think he realises he's out of order! (Although I did say in my response that he might find he is in contravention of employment laws and that there should be a period of a months notice not a week!!).

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR! Going to post office now! Stomp!!!
 
Oh what a W*nker!!!! No wonder you're angry!! That would make my blood boil cheeky twit!

Still at the end of the day you're better out of it!
 
Good for you!!

My god i've just realised you only have 22lbs to go on your ticker!! Remember when you were so pleased to have reached your halfway mark!! That has come round SOOOOOO quickly!
 
if thats his attitude you are most definatly better off out of there, how ever "nice" he may appear !!
xx:)
 
hey ff boss no:2 sounds a complete toss pot
glad your getting out of there
not been on for a couple of days but your posts sound much brighter and glad to see ss is still making you happy
kaz
 
Sorry, Brain failure. this should have read: Congratulations! you have just won the longest ever Mini's post Competition.:eek:
This was for Diary entry tues 29th May
 
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I'm fuming! Boss from Job 2 has emailed me a 'letter of dismissal' !!! I have replied with suitable vitriole and pointing out that you can't actually sack someone without any notice and when off sick and without actually giving them some kind of warning! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR! Going to post office now! Stomp!!!

I'm in the sewing room at present with a lump of plasticine & a handful of pins.
I wonder if it works? Any particular places you'd like them inserted? Or can I guess?

As you said in a later posts you'll feel calmer later.
Just forget about him & his poxy job, put it all down to experience & ,sadly, don't look foreward to the extra days' pay that he suggested on the phone.
 
Sorry, Brain failure. this should have read: Congratulations! you have just won the longest ever Mini's post Competition.:eek:
This was for Diary entry tues 29th May

lol - thank you! lol (although I think I may have excelled even that before! lol) ;)

I'm in the sewing room at present with a lump of plasticine & a handful of pins.
I wonder if it works? Any particular places you'd like them inserted? Or can I guess?

Guess - :rotflmao:

As you said in a later posts you'll feel calmer later.
Just forget about him & his poxy job, put it all down to experience & ,sadly, don't look foreward to the extra days' pay that he suggested on the phone.

I'm calm now - have been since sending my reply and posting the certificate so he has it tomorrow.

Shan't bother with them again now. It's a done deal and roll on getting my P45 from them! lol Although I don't need it as I am still working for Job 1 anyway!

I sent of job application to the Probation service this afternoon too, admin work again, but will be very interesting.. am also waiting to hear back from app to Uni... now THAT's a job I would love!

S and I have been texting and talking on and off today, his day is a nightmare and it's year end for his 3 companies tomorrow (which I hadn't realised when I suggested seeing him this evening!). He just reminded me and said that tomorrow he will prob have to do stock check in Notts and Fri is already booked out to do one in Wolves and then he has boys from Sat morning. Poor sod is running himself ragged!

I did say though that if we didn't get to see each other tonight or tomorrow, odds were we won't until after I come back of hols and that's sh1te! lol

I tried to explain that I do understand his work committments and the crappy timing so am cool with it. He went a bit weird and promised to call me later... lol.. shoot, I didn't want to put pressure on him... :( Still. He's off to grab some nosh so can have a think about it whilst he's eating.. lol

In the meantime I may drop him an 'I do understand' email so he doesn't think I'm getting freaky.. lol Coz I'm not getting freaky, lol Just would like to spend a little time with him before sodding off for the best part of a month! lol

Lord, I hope he misses me while I'm gone! lol Absence makes the heart etc etc... either that or, in my experience, it makes them forget you completely! :rotflmao:

Definitely going to tell him no worries if not getting together before next week... etc.. really think he has enough on his plate at the moment without me piling any more on! I mean it too! (which is odd coz I do want to see him but would actually prefer not to if it helps him... wtf is THAT all about???) lol

Ho-de-hum. lol I've STILL not done MY work so if he is snowed under tonight I can sit and do mine too! lol Go to bed feeling dead self-righteous (well, apart from not having done a stroke of it all day! lol) Right - off to send said email so he is dead impressed at how lurvely I am ;) :D and will want to see me even more!!!!! (I think he would if he wasn't under such pressure!!)

Back soon to tell you about my mechanical skills and daughters and people frightening to poo out of me and my days eating... dead exciting eh? :giggle: :giggle:

oooh, Big Brother starts tonight doesn't it??? Oh dear... good job going away... I get totally addicted to it! (As rubbish as it is!!) lol toodle pip for now! xxx
 
I'm fuming! Boss from Job 2 has emailed me a 'letter of dismissal' !!! I have replied with suitable vitriole and pointing out that you can't actually sack someone without any notice and when off sick and without actually giving them some kind of warning! I am so cross! It doesn't make much odds as I have resigned., but I am fuming at what he put in the letter as yesterday he was singing my praises but saying the 2 jobs were too much for me and the only reason they wouldn't employ me full time is because they couldn't afford to! So how can he now send me a letter listing concerns that I was merrily oblivious to!????

Spoke to S about it and he said to call CAB and get advice , but you know what, I won't. I don't want the aggro and hassle and I really don't think he realises he's out of order! (Although I did say in my response that he might find he is in contravention of employment laws and that there should be a period of a months notice not a week!!).

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR! Going to post office now! Stomp!!!

Hi Jen,

I wouldn't bother going to the CAB as you say it isn't worth it. Sounds as though you ripped a few shreds from his ego hence the letter of dismissal although you've already resigned doh! AND unless you've gone through a 'warnings' process I'm unsure what grounds he has for gross misconduct dohx2! He should go figure! :)

You're leaving, thank goodness his duplicity came out at this stage!

Anyway ... hope you're well!

xxxx
 
Back soon to tell you about my mechanical skills and daughters and people frightening to poo out of me and my days eating... dead exciting eh? :giggle: :giggle:

That should have read - frightening THE poo out of me! lol

Very briefly - honest injun! ;) - this afternoon I was sitting in study and someone walked past the window and scared the poo out of me! Why? Coz window faces the side of my house and they had to come through my side gate to go past!!! It was the fencing folk come for their cash! lol So, heart rate back to normal, them paid, all happy.

Cars - I went to get the mileage off Zoe's car so I could pay her road tax (expires tomorrow) and clicked the alarm off and it made this horrendous wailing noise so I got in and turned the key in the ignition to find the battery was dead as a dodo! Alarm kept whittering on irritatingly as I searched for spanners, pliers and anything really I could use to release the battery! It was raining and I got filthy and was cursing said battery in rather nasty expletives!! :eek: Finally lost my temper and simply prised the connections off! Whipped battery into house where it has been sitting charging up all day! Am SO glad I kept the fandabbydozy battery charger when ex buggered off with his piece.. lol I just have to summon up the energy and the tools to replace and reconnect and HOPE the alarm/immobiliser doesn't have another hissy fit when it goes 'live' again! lol

Sent that email to S, then went to the loo and texted him... lol.. (always text when on loo - lol) lololol he rang! lol I think he must have read the email as he seemed a lot more cheerful and hadn't left yet for his fish and chips! So.. loo bit done with I took dog for a stomp (wearing my new waterproof and windproof jacket) and was flippin glad too! I bumped into the guy who sings at the pub (remember, the one who makes me go bright red!?) and he told me he's on again Friday night - shame I won't be there, lol.. will be fetching Zoe home. :D She rang - she's loving it. I'm so pleased.

Then it started raining! Well, no probs for me and my jacket! lol Up went the hood, a quicker pace and dog smartly walked home! lol

So. Battery now then WILL do these flipping minutes for work so I can take them in tomorrow and print them out and shove em in post - major job as LOADS of recipients!! Still, will be a big pre-holiday job crossed off list and tomorrow IS Thursday! yikes! lol

OOOOH... just think! THIS time next week I will be at my mum's, unable to sleep as we leave at 5am the following morning! The dog will be at the kennels, Zoe back at her job with ALL her worldy goods! (She's cheesed off with the telly in her room as it has no scart and she took her play station! lololol) Bless!

Right - am gonna shut up and sod off now until bedtime or, if get right into work mode, perhaps the morning!

Forgot to weigh meself on home scales again - oh well! Will try and remember tomorrow.

Been a good day SS wise - NO extras, just 1 soup and 2 choc mint muffins... feel good about that :D AND I feel good about job 2 definitely biting the dust, AND I feel good about being at peace about S this week, AND I know that I will sit and talk to him face to face before I go away and tell him I want to know what to expect when I get home (i.e. am I going to see Genesis with him on July 8th or not. If not, I'd rather know before I go! lol ) I think we ARE still an item and so will not push him on that front... definitely haven't seen one another enough but that's been circumstances and timing more than by design I think and certainly communications have been very very good today! lol loads of giggles and good stuff.

All in all, not a bad day! (Glitch with muppet ex-boss aside.. lol) Bless him, I'm sure he thought he wasn't doing anything wrong,. lol and they ARE great people and good people too and fab caterers! I would definitely recommend them! lol (but perhaps not as employers).. ;)

(that was me being brief :giggle: :giggle: )
 
Cool Calm & optimistic.
night night
 
Hi, have only just looked at your diary and have to admit I haven't read it from the beginning (there are an awful lot of pages! lol).

Anyway, it was your signature that got my attention, and I just want to say I'm incredibly amazed and impressed at how much weight you've lost and how long you've stuck to CD!

You must be so proud of yourself! And you're nearly at your goal weight! :D
 
:wavey: night night

Just had an unexpected call from S (he hasn't read email yet - lol) to say what's been happening with him :D

I've refitted the car battery and the engine is running lovely - will drive her car for a couple of days I think. Also - dropped the security bar somewhere deep into the engine area so hoping to retrieve that in the daylight tomorrow.. lol but feel pretty chuffed with myself for sorting out a car problem all on my own :D :D :D :D

Also emailed some friends and have arranged with my mate Kevin in the states, to have a chat on msn tomorrow lunchtime with him (7am his time) as I can't stay up late at night these days.lol

I AM feeling pretty calm actually - what a turnaround! lol :D

Night night xxxxxx (more meandering mumblings tomorrow no doubt! lol ;) )
 
Hi, have only just looked at your diary and have to admit I haven't read it from the beginning (there are an awful lot of pages! lol).

Anyway, it was your signature that got my attention, and I just want to say I'm incredibly amazed and impressed at how much weight you've lost and how long you've stuck to CD!

You must be so proud of yourself! And you're nearly at your goal weight! :D


aww Sparkle - thank you (and don't worry about reading my diary ! lol it would take you weeks! lol)

Hopefully getting to goal in next couple of months and heading into that scarey maintenance territory!! ARGH! I saw your pics on the before and after thread and am SO impressed! You look really stunning! :D

Anyway, welcome to my world! lol ;)
 
Sorry jennie I'm going to have to disagree with you for once.

Sparkle, I recommend that you do read FFnF's diary, or as much of it as you can. I caught up by trying to do a week a night.

Look it'srainging all week..what else are you going to to do?
 
i second that
you got to read it all
make ya shake and then sit in front of the pc for a couple of hours
ff is amazing she`ll have you laughing,crying and feeling you can definetly achieve your goal

kaz :D
 
I agree with Jane and Kasbro. You must sit down and read Jenny's diary from start to finish. It is better than any book. You should read Janes diary too.

They both write with such amazing clarity that you are right there living the situation with them.

I think they have both missed their vocation. They would make a fortune as authors.
 
All I can say is that I have read it from start to finish and I wait everyday for the latest update its better than anything on telly lol . Not only that jennie is an amazing inspiration with all that she has achieved.:wavey:Tho i will hold my hand up and say I am a Fff diaryaholic :whistle:
 
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