Felix's new to SW diary!

[Felix]

Snap! I'm not having one, just to keep her quiet. (a strapless dress I mean)

I don't think I'd have a strapless dress anyway so it's all good

 

[Rkmriddell]

I have a tatoo on my boob and had a strapless dress - it's part of me so who cares lol. I want a tatoo when i reach goal, something small somewhere on my hand so it's a permanent visable reminder of what i've achieved, how hard it was and why i can never go back.... struggling to find something though, may end up with a charm for my bracelet instead lol.... maybe make it a heavy one haha x

 

[icklerockchick]

I've managed to keep most of my tattoos hidden from my mother, she is going to freak if she sees them for the first time on my wedding day haha! Should have some more by then too, need to decide on what tattoo to get when I reach target! x

 

[JezVonSavage]

I've managed to keep most of my tattoos hidden from my mother, she is going to freak if she sees them for the first time on my wedding day haha! Should have some more by then too, need to decide on what tattoo to get when I reach target! x

This is my problem, I have more than I have ever told her about and I just couldn't face her on my wedding day if that was the first time she saw them!! So I've gone for a long sleeved dress (which, given that it's a 5o's style dress is apt anyway- a 50's would never have gotten married with their shoulders on show).

RKM- It's not that my tattoos aren't part of me but when I started getting them my Mum told me how much she hates them and we agreed that I don't have them out in her presence. She sees a few of them, but I wouldn't want to deliberately disrespect her by getting them all out at once on the "big day". I'm only getting married because it meant so much to my mum and dad, it would upset her sooooo much if I got them all out. She'd never put a wedding photo up!

 

[Rkmriddell]

This is my problem, I have more than I have ever told her about and I just couldn't face her on my wedding day if that was the first time she saw them!! So I've gone for a long sleeved dress (which, given that it's a 5o's style dress is apt anyway- a 50's would never have gotten married with their shoulders on show).

RKM- It's not that my tattoos aren't part of me but when I started getting them my Mum told me how much she hates them and we agreed that I don't have them out in her presence. She sees a few of them, but I wouldn't want to deliberately disrespect her by getting them all out at once on the "big day". I'm only getting married because it meant so much to my mum and dad, it would upset her sooooo much if I got them all out. She'd never put a wedding photo up!

No I see what you mean and I think it's great the you put your moms thoughts there. Mine is on my boob, it's visible in some of the photos that guests took or where I'm holding the kids not the main ones as I was more stood up and had a better posture meaning the dress sat right lol. X

 

[Felix]

Hi everyone. Food today:

Breakfast - weetabix with skimmed milk and milky coffee

Snack - grapes and a banana

Lunch - mugshot, Pom bear crisps (4 syns), 2 oranges and a yoghurt.

I'm so p*ssed off OH promised we could go back to my parents house this evening to spend some time with my family and stop over, see my nieces and nephew tomorrow and then come back in the afternoon as he's going out with friends tomorrow night. I got back from work very tired but set about cleaning the house so it's spotless for his friends coming round for pre-drinks tomorrow. He said last night he would help me clean up, but he got home and dossed about on his laptop for ages and washed about 3 pots and that was it. I have spent about 3 hours giving the house a good clean because he just hasn't helped at all and then when I ask about going home he goes 'oh I thought we were going tomorrow for a couple of hours and staying in and having a nice night together tonight' and he claims I never even told him about going down tonight even though my Mum said she would cook us a meal and everything!! Then he decides he's tired and wants a nap before we go, which I wasn't too happy about as I knew he would end up feeling worse after a nap. So I left him until 9 and tried to wake him up, and he's just totally ignoring me and won't get up even though I've been trying for the past 2 hours. My mum text me asking where we were and I've had to tell her we aren't coming tonight Im even more annoyed that he made a big fuss out of us having a 'nice night in tonight' and he's just gone to sleep and left me sat on my own!!!! I'm so upset because I don't get to see my family much, and if we go tomorrow we will only be there about 3 hours max before we have to come back. All this after I stayed up last night baking brownies for him to take to work even though he knew I was shattered, and after spending my whole evening cleaning up because HIS friends are visiting. I could slap him I swear!

Sorry for the rant!!!!!

 

[Chipmunk89]

Grrrr, God mean can be so frustrating at times! I'd feel like giving him a good slap if I was you too! Sorry your night was spoiled Hope you get to spend some time time with them tomorrow, and that OH makes it up to you somehow.

 

[Felix]

Ugh he just came upstairs doing his 'pretending to be half asleep because I know I've done something wrong' face, chucked my clothes at me and asked if im ready to go. As if! It takes an hour to get back to my parents house and I don't want to be waking people up. Plus I am tired myself now and all worked up because I've been crying my eyes out! He kept asking why I'm acting like this because he's done nothing wrong so I told him to F off. I've left him in bed and I'm now on the sofa. Plus I've not had any tea because we were meant to be eating at my mums really not in the mood to cook now. Gosh I really hope I don't sound like I'm overreacting! I'm just really upset with him

 

[Chipmunk89]

I don't think you are overreacting at all, hun. I've had a very similar argument with my OH in the past and I was really upset too. *hugs* When you've calmed down a bit (whether that's later tonight or tomorrow) try talking about it and explaining why it's upset you, hopefully he'll understand and apologise.

 

[Tano]

Grrrrrrrrrr bloody men!! The past 3 days, I've been having nightmares with my OH and only started talking properly last night, plus issues at work! At least you've stayed focused on SW (unlike me) and haven't let it ruin all your hard work xxx

 

[Felix]

Oh dear its crap isn't it. He went and slept on the sofa last night! We hardly ever argue so I hate it when we actually do. I hope you get everything sorted out xx

 

[JezVonSavage]

Yours sounds just like mine- dreaded effing naps. I can guarantee he'll go for a nap everytime we have something to do, which means that 9 times out of 10 we end up not doing it or I do it alone.

Luckily, my parents are used to him as we've been together for ages, but if he was a new bf they'd be telling me he's anti-social and to bin him, haha.

Because I'm an arsehole, I'd cancel the friends coming over for drinks and go see your Mum instead! I hate not seeing my Mum, hence why I ended up buying a house 10 mins away! I used to live miles away and I really missed her.

 

[Felix]

He's exactly the same! It's so annoying. Or he will find something which is totally pointless and he'll make out he 'needs to do it before we go.' eg. washing and drying a top he wants to wear that day 20 minutes before we have to leave, even though he's got about a million other things to wear... Or looking for something he has lost even though he doesn't need it right now. I swear sometimes he does it on purpose. Grrrrr!

I would love to live near my mum now. And my sisters and brother. One of my sisters who has my two nieces lives near my mum, but my other sister is down in Bournemouth and brother is in Stoke. I have decided I'm going to learn to drive this year so I can visit as much as I like!

 

[icklerockchick]

*hugs* that's a shame love, arguing really upsets me too! Learning to drive sounds a plan then you don't need to rely on that loser that's a really horrible thing for him to do to you :-( x

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[Felix]

He's not spoken to me this morning

Breakfast - weetabix with yoghurt and banana/blueberries and a milky coffee! It's yummy

 

[JezVonSavage]

I hate that- If I argue with someone I have it out with them and then it's done with, I can't STAND being ignored. Are you ok?? x

 

[Felix]

Oh and I've cheered up because it's really sunny which means I can crack out my tortoiseshell Ray Ban's

 

[Felix]

I hate that- If I argue with someone I have it out with them and then it's done with, I can't STAND being ignored. Are you ok?? x

Yeah I'm fine thanks I'm really stubborn and won't go and talk to him haha. I just want him to apologise that's all! Bleedin' men!

 

[Tano]

Yeah I'm fine thanks I'm really stubborn and won't go and talk to him haha. I just want him to apologise that's all! Bleedin' men!

Mine never says sorry, he's such a stubborn arse! Truly loving those raybans coming out x

 

[Rkmriddell]

Aww. Hun. Sorry your oh is being an eejit. They do know how to drive us mad don't they!!! Good on you learning to drive though, be in charge yourself xxx