I thought I'd give you an update on my neighbours that we had a bit of a barny with earlier in the year. We haven't socialised with them but when we see them over the fence or out the front we chat and catch up, don't feel guilty not inviting them to things anymore as our lives are so different and friendships change, it's not just us though as they are like it with our best friends (they live the other end of the block of four houses).
Well I could have killed them the other night.. If they didn't kill each other first!
The walls are paper thin here so we literally can hear everything, talking, hair dryer, toilet flushing.. Everything! It's rather annoying but we are considerate.. They are not!
They started rowing, it got really heated and about midnight there was loads of banging around, I thought she might have been getting the sofa bed out, it was so loud and they were shouting at each other then just before 1am she stormed out with a wheelie bag in tow, he then was on the phone to someone crying and screaming, this went on for ages, it was so horrible hearing it.
Before listening to the chillpod I would have been going mad but I just calmly sat there, didn't know what to do but I wasn't going mad, just took it in my stride, even though I was thinking "I am going to be tired after so little sleep!"
I finally got to sleep sometime after 2am despite the noise and had to be up at 3.30am for work so was very exhausted all day.
The moral of this story is that despite lacking writing down my positives I must be doing something right as I stayed really calm and didn't retaliate.
Had my parents and sister around for a BBQ yesterday, was lovely to see them and had mainly SW food, I'm trying to encourage them to join but they're not having it at the moment! My sister looked at the latest magazine and looked at a ladies "before" photo and asked if she looked like that, I said yes, she didn't like it but it was true, she said she still wasn't motivated to try it herself, she only lasted a couple of months at the beginning of the year as she says she doesn't like the food!
There's nothing I can do, she needs to do it for herself but I was trying to ask them to help me as I'm struggling at the moment and I said if all four of us did it we could support each other.. My mum sounded quite tempted so we'll see what happens!
Today I'm off but we're having a team quiz/BBQ at a colleagues house so hope the weather cheers up later! X