Kim's diary of being a new mum
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missy1978
Big Bird
P.s this has turned from pregnancy diary to house buying drama diary! Sorry about that! Once this is sorted normal pregnancy waffling will recommence!
Honestly I'm not surprised it's driving you mad. I'd be the same in your position and that's with me knowing a bit about the law! All it takes it one rubbish client or solicitor further down the chain and you're stuffed
I know cake won't solve it but it might at least make you feel a bit better xxx
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Oh for God's sake!!!! Sadly I have been there.. Unfortunately for me it didn't have a happy ending I wasted MONTHS listening to "oh next week for sure"
Even had us so convinced at one stage we agreed to rent off them for a month while it was all sorted.. So moved into the house.. and then pulled out so moved back out.. Devastating and there were LOTS of tears... Not good...
This won't be the case for you though... Hopefully it'll happen tomoro.. Hopefully...
Enjoy cake.. Its very much needed and deserved...
Oh Missy you don't work in Litigation do ya?? Fricken hate the complications of litigation in cases...
I wasted MONTHS listening to "oh next week for sure"Even had us so convinced at one stage we agreed to rent off them for a month while it was all sorted.. So moved into the house.. and then pulled out so moved back out.. Devastating and there were LOTS of tears... Not good...
This won't be the case for you though... Hopefully it'll happen tomoro.. Hopefully...
Enjoy cake.. Its very much needed and deserved...
Oh Missy you don't work in Litigation do ya?? Fricken hate the complications of litigation in cases...
missy1978
Big Bird
Oh for God's sake!!!! Sadly I have been there.. Unfortunately for me it didn't have a happy ending
I do for my sins! Could be worse though, I used to work in personal injury! I love it though, I only like contentious law hehe
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
I work in liability insurance.. so not a stones throw from what you do...I do for my sins! Could be worse though, I used to work in personal injury! I love it though, I only like contentious law hehe
missy1978
Big Bird
28+5 weeks
Well lets wait and see what the day holds for the house buying drama. I'm pretty convinced that if it doesn't happen today it wont happen at all - i'm certainly not hanging around until Feb to move and next Thursday is the only available day for moving as someone in the chain can't do Friday and then the people we are buying from are off on holiday for 8 weeks the following Monday.
Well i didn't even eat cake last night, i think my body had a bit of a meltdown with the stress last night, i went to my mums as i got out the car i felt really dizzy, then was boiling hot (standing outside in the freezing cold in a t-shirt just trying to cool down), i ate dinner (felt really shaky and nauseous before eating) and then just felt like pants for the rest of the evening. Once the cake was done i didn't even feel like eating any of it all i wanted to do was curl up and cry and go to bed.
Baby has been kicking away at least so keeping me reasurred that it is OK in there despite all the stress. I am a bit worried that stress can affect baby? can it? if it's short term stress surely it can't affect bubs too much?
I didn't get a call from the hospital yesterday so assuming if i don't get a call today i don't have GD!
Well lets wait and see what the day holds for the house buying drama. I'm pretty convinced that if it doesn't happen today it wont happen at all - i'm certainly not hanging around until Feb to move and next Thursday is the only available day for moving as someone in the chain can't do Friday and then the people we are buying from are off on holiday for 8 weeks the following Monday.
Well i didn't even eat cake last night, i think my body had a bit of a meltdown with the stress last night, i went to my mums as i got out the car i felt really dizzy, then was boiling hot (standing outside in the freezing cold in a t-shirt just trying to cool down), i ate dinner (felt really shaky and nauseous before eating) and then just felt like pants for the rest of the evening. Once the cake was done i didn't even feel like eating any of it all i wanted to do was curl up and cry and go to bed.
Baby has been kicking away at least so keeping me reasurred that it is OK in there despite all the stress. I am a bit worried that stress can affect baby? can it? if it's short term stress surely it can't affect bubs too much?
I didn't get a call from the hospital yesterday
so assuming if i don't get a call today i don't have GD!
missy1978
Big Bird
28+5 weeks Well lets wait and see what the day holds for the house buying drama. I'm pretty convinced that if it doesn't happen today it wont happen at all - i'm certainly not hanging around until Feb to move and next Thursday is the only available day for moving as someone in the chain can't do Friday and then the people we are buying from are off on holiday for 8 weeks the following Monday. Well i didn't even eat cake last night, i think my body had a bit of a meltdown with the stress last night, i went to my mums as i got out the car i felt really dizzy, then was boiling hot (standing outside in the freezing cold in a t-shirt just trying to cool down), i ate dinner (felt really shaky and nauseous before eating) and then just felt like pants for the rest of the evening. Once the cake was done i didn't even feel like eating any of it all i wanted to do was curl up and cry and go to bed. Baby has been kicking away at least so keeping me reasurred that it is OK in there despite all the stress. I am a bit worried that stress can affect baby? can it? if it's short term stress surely it can't affect bubs too much?
After my initial breakdown when I was 15 weeks I was asking the same questions - and I was firmly told that no, baby is fine stress or not! It's better not to be stressed at all but people have been through deaths, wars, etc while pregnant and still had healthy babies. Your little one is doing fine in there I'm sure
Hope you're feeling a bit better today - I'm sure you would have heard by now if GD was an issue but fingers crossed you hear nothing today too and hoping you get good house news too! xxx
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Oh you poor thing.. Take it easy... Mind yourself.. Tell the solicitor to get it sorted or he'll have an angry Irish pregnant lady coming to find him!!!! lol
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After my initial breakdown when I was 15 weeks I was asking the same questions - and I was firmly told that no, baby is fine stress or not! It's better not to be stressed at all but people have been through deaths, wars, etc while pregnant and still had healthy babies. Your little one is doing fine in there I'm sure
Hope you're feeling a bit better today - I'm sure you would have heard by now if GD was an issue but fingers crossed you hear nothing today too and hoping you get good house news too! xxx
Thanks missy - i'm glad stress can't hurt the baby, thank you for the reassurance. Everyone keeps saying "don't get stressed it's not good for you or the baby" but it's easier said than done when you are dealing with idiots!
Haha i'll warn them! No one wants to deal with one angry pregnant woman - let alone 2!
haha. I'm also considering setting my niece on them, she's developed a wonderful growl recently along with the knowledge that the 3 teeth she has HURT when she bites you
lol
PrincessPeach
Pregnant with Baby No 2!
Hi Kim,
Oh hun I'm so sorry I've missed all this. I can TOTALLY understand the anger, tears and frustration - I'd be losing my mind if it were me! Baby won't be feeling any of this so don't worry, but you do need to try and take care of yourself for you x I know "relaxing" is a lot easier said than done, particularly when you're trying to go through a move etc. I'm so sorry this is all being so stressful for you. I had a hissy fit over a few cardboard boxes being in my house earlier lol so can't imagine how you must be feeling.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed for good news for you honey xxx
Oh hun
I'm so sorry I've missed all this. I can TOTALLY understand the anger, tears and frustration - I'd be losing my mind if it were me! Baby won't be feeling any of this so don't worry, but you do need to try and take care of yourself for you x I know "relaxing" is a lot easier said than done, particularly when you're trying to go through a move etc. I'm so sorry this is all being so stressful for you. I had a hissy fit over a few cardboard boxes being in my house earlier lol so can't imagine how you must be feeling.I'm keeping my fingers crossed for good news for you honey xxx
missy1978
Big Bird
HOUSE MOVE UPDATE.... WE'VE EXCHANGED!!!!!!! we move next Thursday!!!!
Yay! Chuffed to bits for you, now you can plan moving and baby room and Christmas and so many exciting things!
xxx
PrincessPeach
Pregnant with Baby No 2!
HOUSE MOVE UPDATE....
WE'VE EXCHANGED!!!!!!! we move next Thursday!!!!
ha ha! I've just posted before reading this!!
YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So happy for you!! I bet your over the moon!!!
xxHi Kim,
Oh hun
I'm keeping my fingers crossed for good news for you honey xxx
Thanks Hun, thankfully we've exchanged this afternoon so the stress is MUCH less and now it's just the fun of packing..or supervising Mike packing
sarah_lou1981
Back again!!
HOUSE MOVE UPDATE.... WE'VE EXCHANGED!!!!!!! we move next Thursday!!!!
Yay!! So pleased for you. Glad someone finally got their finger out and sorted it for you
ha ha! I've just posted before reading this!!
YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So happy for you!! I bet your over the moon!!!
Yay! Chuffed to bits for you, now you can plan moving and baby room and Christmas and so many exciting things!
Thanks girls - absolutely relieved that we finally exchanged!
Thank you for all your support and listening to me rant about it! I am sure it will all be worth it! I cannot wait to unpack the christmas decorations! haha.
PrincessPeach
Pregnant with Baby No 2!
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
HOUSE MOVE UPDATE....
WE'VE EXCHANGED!!!!!!! we move next Thursday!!!!
Aww... YAYYYYYY... Super delighted for you babe... It was the threat of the Irish pregnant lady done it wasn't it? Tell the truth.. LOL
Ah really pleased for you both hun... xxxxxx
