Pretty little blue Pill!!!- the fight to the end!!!!!
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Mizkirsty
Gold Member
Hunny I have to agree!
He's chosen to not make his mind up over your relationship!
He knew you wanted kids you never hid this he's the one that's done this not you my love!
Why should you give that up?! You shouldn't! And if he can't see that then he's not
Worth it.
Hunny you are amazing you can do so much better xxxx
He's chosen to not make his mind up over your relationship!
He knew you wanted kids you never hid this he's the one that's done this not you my love!
Why should you give that up?! You shouldn't! And if he can't see that then he's not
Worth it.
Hunny you are amazing you can do so much better xxxx
Lexie2005
5:2 lover
Kes my love you shouldn't have been scared, we will all support your decision!
Right now you are young enough to start again whereas in 10 years time when chances are he still won't have changed his mind you will be too old to start again.
I know it's hard (I was divorced in my mid 20s) but you will get through this & we will do our best to help you.
Much love xx
Right now you are young enough to start again whereas in 10 years time when chances are he still won't have changed his mind you will be too old to start again.
I know it's hard (I was divorced in my mid 20s) but you will get through this & we will do our best to help you.
Much love xx
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alongwaytogo
Silver Member
Sorry to hear what you're going through, must be a terrible time for you. X
busybee_mummy
Full Member
So sorry your going through a horrible time. I agree with all of the above.
At least you are young and able to find someone who does want to share you dreams.
In ten years time it would be better to look back and think at least you tried and not look back and think I wish...
I don't think you ever regret having children but you would regret not having them.
Lots of love xxx
At least you are young and able to find someone who does want to share you dreams.
In ten years time it would be better to look back and think at least you tried and not look back and think I wish...
I don't think you ever regret having children but you would regret not having them.
Lots of love xxx
Mis-behave
Gold Member
Mee too 
Rachgleeson
Gold Member
Kes hun i am so sorry to hear what you are going through, this is such a tough situation for you. Theres nothing anyone can say that will make this any easier for you, or no one can tell you what to do or how you should feel. All this is up to you. Again i know couple who have never had kids and they are having a great life doing whatever they want, maybe your hubby is afraid of giving "his life" up, having someone else to look after and think about instead of himself. Whatever his reasons, he should explain them to you properly so as you know where you stand!!
I can see kids mean alot to you, so if you feel its not going to happen with him, and you can imagine life without him and having kids with another man, then you know what to do. You need to do what will make you happy. I know i couldnt imagine life without my children, even though i never planned on having them (as such) or as young!! I panicked too, wondered how i was going to cope looking after this helpless little baby, i never thought i would be able to. Does your hubby have any contact with small children? maybe if he did it may make it seem not so scary!!
I really hope you work this out, one way or another. Thinking of you hunny. Take care. x
I can see kids mean alot to you, so if you feel its not going to happen with him, and you can imagine life without him and having kids with another man, then you know what to do. You need to do what will make you happy. I know i couldnt imagine life without my children, even though i never planned on having them (as such) or as young!! I panicked too, wondered how i was going to cope looking after this helpless little baby, i never thought i would be able to. Does your hubby have any contact with small children? maybe if he did it may make it seem not so scary!!
I really hope you work this out, one way or another. Thinking of you hunny. Take care. x
Kes
Gold Member
Hey guys, sorry I've been missing in action
Things got tough... I split up with my other half, and I went to Australia with the intention of sorting my life there to move and get on with my life
But I missed him... I realised that I couldn't live my life without him... Which took me by surprise...
We talked loads when I got back, and he does want children just not now. So I have decided to wait... I love him and I really don't feel like I could leave him..
I've had an emotional few months, and lost my way...
I had to go back to Australia last week as my nanna passed away, so I went back for the funeral.
Weight gain central here at the life of kes. So I feel like rubbish..
But I got back on the wagon today, and started with the ripped in 30 week one.... Tough and def a step up from the 30 day shred, and I hope that I can get through the whole 4 weeks of it..
I've also got to fit into a dress for the other halls awards night in jan. currently it doesn't do up, and Its extremely tight so I want to fit into this. I need to work hard and I am sure I will get there.
I'm going to have shakes and meals ( back to how I started really) but instead of the slim fast shakes I had I will be using up the Cambridge, slim and save and exante shakes that I still have. And will have a meal (low fat and low cal) as per slim fast rules.. I will also be taking my tablets too...
I've completely gone back to how I started and how I lost my weight slowly and kept it off.
I want to fit into the dress but I also want to lose this weight for good. Some days I may have a shake as well instead of dinner, but I don't want to completely go onto Cambridge again as I know if I don't deal with my addiction I won't get anywhere and I will just put it all back on again,,, from New Years to the awards night I will go fully onto the shakes coz I know that it will make me less bloated which means I will feel good in my dress, but that's only about 8 days, then it will be back to 2 shakes and dinner.
Back to the way things were.
Things got tough... I split up with my other half, and I went to Australia with the intention of sorting my life there to move and get on with my life
But I missed him... I realised that I couldn't live my life without him... Which took me by surprise...
We talked loads when I got back, and he does want children just not now. So I have decided to wait... I love him and I really don't feel like I could leave him..
I've had an emotional few months, and lost my way...
I had to go back to Australia last week as my nanna passed away, so I went back for the funeral.
Weight gain central here at the life of kes. So I feel like rubbish..
But I got back on the wagon today, and started with the ripped in 30 week one.... Tough and def a step up from the 30 day shred, and I hope that I can get through the whole 4 weeks of it..
I've also got to fit into a dress for the other halls awards night in jan. currently it doesn't do up, and Its extremely tight so I want to fit into this. I need to work hard and I am sure I will get there.
I'm going to have shakes and meals ( back to how I started really) but instead of the slim fast shakes I had I will be using up the Cambridge, slim and save and exante shakes that I still have. And will have a meal (low fat and low cal) as per slim fast rules.. I will also be taking my tablets too...
I've completely gone back to how I started and how I lost my weight slowly and kept it off.
I want to fit into the dress but I also want to lose this weight for good. Some days I may have a shake as well instead of dinner, but I don't want to completely go onto Cambridge again as I know if I don't deal with my addiction I won't get anywhere and I will just put it all back on again,,, from New Years to the awards night I will go fully onto the shakes coz I know that it will make me less bloated which means I will feel good in my dress, but that's only about 8 days, then it will be back to 2 shakes and dinner.
Back to the way things were.
Rachgleeson
Gold Member
Good to see you back here Kes, i noticed from fb you were in australia. Glad you have sorted out what you want, once you are happy thats all the matters.
So sorry about your nan, i had the same thing to deal with last year as i said on fb its not easy to be far away when anything like this happens.
So sorry about your nan, i had the same thing to deal with last year as i said on fb its not easy to be far away when anything like this happens.
Mis-behave
Gold Member
Good to see you back, glad you have a plan of action food wise.
Sorry to here about your nan. It's good you and your OH has talked properly and sorted a load of things out. You have been on a emotional journey it good to have you back - had been wondering how you were!
Sorry to here about your nan. It's good you and your OH has talked properly and sorted a load of things out. You have been on a emotional journey it good to have you back - had been wondering how you were!
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