We are quite open to anything. I too initially wanted a barn style wedding. However we found one but it was way out with no accommodation nearby, and it also wouldn't have been great if the weather had been bad. We saw a lovely house with beautiful gardens but the rooms inside weren'rt big enough for our numbers (only a smallish wedding too at 65ish day guests). We then decided that we had no real basis on ruling hotels out. We recently viewed a hotel which has had a refurb and it is gorgeous - really glamarous and right in the centre of Newcastle (where i'm from) so meaningful too
I think it is our choice but we want to rule out some others that I have already made appointments with!
Your venue sounds wonderful
and I think that you definitely get a good feeling when the venue is right xxxx