Tinytootz
Mini crazy cat lady
MUST be something in the air, me and OH fell out last night!
It all started in the pub when he said he could fit in my jeans. I was a bit put out, and my friend kinda blew it out, saying her husband would never say that, and how he shouldn't have said to me. She said he had overstepped the boundary, and his reply was so had I! I was a bit baffled, but apparently, I overstepped the line by asking him via text message about his daughter. The situation with her is very odd, and there is a lot I don't know, so I had asked a question. Not a nasty one, not a prying one. So we got back, he was cooking tea, and I was a little sulky about the whole jeans thing. He flounced out the house, so I decided to go to bed. He returned, asked why I was in bed, why wouldn't I eat the tea he made, then flounced into bed himself. He then blew up at me about his daughter, saying I should have asked in person, and that he would never ask such things via text. I pointed out that he ALWAYS asks me things via text, and that in person he rarely answers my questions. He then went all teenager on me, said he couldn't be bothered anymore with anything. I've found the best thing to do is to ignore him. He eventually softened, and apologised. He couldn't understand why I was so bothered about the jeans thing. And to be honest, I wasn't so bothered. But my friend kinda wound me up about it. But I did point out to him that I've come a long way, and it was a bit of a kick in the teeth. He says I'm perfect and shouldn't lose weight for him, but I told him it was for me, not him. He knows he has hurt me, and he knows that he was being basically unreasonable. I didn't do anything wrong, he just wanted some ammo to throw at me as he is stubborn, and when he has hurt me, he doesn't instantly apologise, he kinda digs himself further, then apologises later!
We made up. I'm usually a bit sensitive the next day, but I'm pretty sure I did no wrong, so the bad feeling is on his part. I'm not gonna make him suffer for it though, it was a silly argument. I'm a little hurt over the jeans thing, but I've made my point, said my part, time to move on. My friend also fell out with her fella last night too! Wish I could blame the drink, but I had 1/2 bottle of wine over 3 hours, OH had one pint, she had over a bottle......
Anyway, yeah, the git fits in my jeans. Size 14.
It all started in the pub when he said he could fit in my jeans. I was a bit put out, and my friend kinda blew it out, saying her husband would never say that, and how he shouldn't have said to me. She said he had overstepped the boundary, and his reply was so had I! I was a bit baffled, but apparently, I overstepped the line by asking him via text message about his daughter. The situation with her is very odd, and there is a lot I don't know, so I had asked a question. Not a nasty one, not a prying one. So we got back, he was cooking tea, and I was a little sulky about the whole jeans thing. He flounced out the house, so I decided to go to bed. He returned, asked why I was in bed, why wouldn't I eat the tea he made, then flounced into bed himself. He then blew up at me about his daughter, saying I should have asked in person, and that he would never ask such things via text. I pointed out that he ALWAYS asks me things via text, and that in person he rarely answers my questions. He then went all teenager on me, said he couldn't be bothered anymore with anything. I've found the best thing to do is to ignore him. He eventually softened, and apologised. He couldn't understand why I was so bothered about the jeans thing. And to be honest, I wasn't so bothered. But my friend kinda wound me up about it. But I did point out to him that I've come a long way, and it was a bit of a kick in the teeth. He says I'm perfect and shouldn't lose weight for him, but I told him it was for me, not him. He knows he has hurt me, and he knows that he was being basically unreasonable. I didn't do anything wrong, he just wanted some ammo to throw at me as he is stubborn, and when he has hurt me, he doesn't instantly apologise, he kinda digs himself further, then apologises later!
We made up. I'm usually a bit sensitive the next day, but I'm pretty sure I did no wrong, so the bad feeling is on his part. I'm not gonna make him suffer for it though, it was a silly argument. I'm a little hurt over the jeans thing, but I've made my point, said my part, time to move on. My friend also fell out with her fella last night too! Wish I could blame the drink, but I had 1/2 bottle of wine over 3 hours, OH had one pint, she had over a bottle......
Anyway, yeah, the git fits in my jeans. Size 14.
