Barb
Gold Member
Thank you Claire, for your thoughts and your kindness. It is much appreciated. You are right, I need to capture some 'me' time, that's where I think the swimming could come in. I have decided that I will commit to going every Wednesday to start with. There is an adults only session at a local pool between 12.30 and 2.30 and I think that will fit perfectly. I also need to get better at saying what i want. last night I could tell DH was about to say lets watch some tv and I just upped and said ' I'm going down the seafront for a walk'. He was surprised but decided to come too, which was fine and we had a lovely walk, the air was fresh, not a breath of wind and there were really dramatic clouds across to the horizon. I could feel it doing me good. So that is definitely what i need to do more of.
You'll see from my ticker that I have lost 2lbs this week, so only 4 away from the first stone. I am really pleased with that but in view of what you said about stress, I am going to try and really calm down about the whole weight loss/diabetes/panic situation. I will do my absolute best, I can't do more than that. So that will be good enough for me. I have to drop down the pressure on myself.
Lots of love to you Claire, you are helping me so much, I am so, so grateful to you. Huge hugs.
You'll see from my ticker that I have lost 2lbs this week, so only 4 away from the first stone. I am really pleased with that but in view of what you said about stress, I am going to try and really calm down about the whole weight loss/diabetes/panic situation. I will do my absolute best, I can't do more than that. So that will be good enough for me. I have to drop down the pressure on myself.
Lots of love to you Claire, you are helping me so much, I am so, so grateful to you. Huge hugs.