Willpower.... where do I find that?!?!?

Guys is it normal to feel slightly insecure when your OH goes out with his mates? Nothing bad or anything just a bit like ooooooooooo your so gorge eveyone will so check you out xx
 
MissieCB said:
Guys is it normal to feel slightly insecure when your OH goes out with his mates? Nothing bad or anything just a bit like ooooooooooo your so gorge eveyone will so check you out xx

U shouldnt feel insecure babe. He goes home to u every night and he is marrying u. Book will tell u u shouldnt say that sort of thing to him! So what if girls look at him, be proud u have a hunky man, but remember u are also gorgeous and men look at u too. Just chill xxx
 
yeah i know i thought that!! I know nothing would ever come between us think its one of those things i have the insecurity thing!!! Prob alot to do with weight aswell!!! xxx
 
MissieCB said:
yeah i know i thought that!! I know nothing would ever come between us think its one of those things i have the insecurity thing!!! Prob alot to do with weight aswell!!! xxx

I used to be like that hun and i agree its prob coz u not happy with how u look. Promise book will help change ur mindset though!
Ive just finished meeting and starving! Gonna have to have early lunch from services on way home. Nice sarnie and fruit or something from m&s i reckon (again sorry not meaning to rub it in when ur doing so well.)

Ive been asked on another date by someone i knew from school! He was few years above and we have mutual friend and he sent me a fb msg last night saying he heard i was single and always fancied me back in the day and do i fancy dinner or drinks! V sweet but dunno what to say? Nice guy, not a bad looker but feel bad about team jimmy! Mind u so busy atm i can always say it would be nice but not for a while as busy, least that point i'll have 3rd date with jim and know if i fancy him or just mates?! Confusing.com!! X
 
Book should be here today!!! Need a kick up the arse to think more of myself etc

Just say the truth if you want like your seeing someone but its nothing serious and if you wanna go out for a beer go!! Say its only mates or something chick x You have only had two dates with the other guy I remember when i had a different one everyday for a week!!! looool even wore same outfit lool xx
 
MissieCB said:
Book should be here today!!! Need a kick up the arse to think more of myself etc

Just say the truth if you want like your seeing someone but its nothing serious and if you wanna go out for a beer go!! Say its only mates or something chick x You have only had two dates with the other guy I remember when i had a different one everyday for a week!!! looool even wore same outfit lool xx

Good idea! I will be totes honest. I like spending time with diff people anyway, no harm in it i guess! Nice for confidence too tbh. Part of me really wants a bf and part of me really doesnt wanna give up my singleness. Love being selfish and just pleasing myself, book teaches u u can kinda do both, cant wait for u to read so u can see the light ;-) In ordering another one alex recommended on pay day x
 
Look at you little miss dates!! Go for it doll!

And I think it's only natural hun but don't let it take over you, you love and trust him and he's the same with you :)

No bed hair yet haha.

Tryin my hardest not to be the one to strike up a convo with the ex, had a lil chat bout random things when we pass each other but I'm being strong!!
 
Awww well done let him to the chatting and stuff legs!!! Are you sure he doesnt still have feelings cos im getting a feeling he does!!!

CL book didnt arrive pah gutted xxx O well always tomorrow for weekend reading xxx
 
I don't know tbh, we didn't finish cos we argued or anything wrong at all it was just too soon after his ex and he needed to be on his own which I understood cos it was my worry in the beginning.

My new thing is to think he's with someone else so I have to move on, still haven't contacted him and he's off tomorrow so I'll be one week down if I manage to last the day - how sad am I lol x
 
nooo your not sad your doing really well hun ive been there before and its hard when you really like someone!!! You feel like there wont be anyone else but there always is loool x :D
 
ha you make me giggle!!! xx
 
lil_legs said:
I've eaten loads of lil cakes ooops

I WANT to eat loads of little cakes!!!
 
Wish this book would hurry up, took all my willpower not to start random chats with him like usual!! I'm not putting him number back into my phone though! I will crack this.

All the willpower was used so the cakes found their way in! Tut.

Nevermind I will focus on shifting this weight, toning up and NOT thinking about him. I'm telling myself he's with someone else anyway (maybe be is) so I hope it'll keep me away. Man I wish we hadnt crossed the friends line!!!

And if I end up havin a bit more than banter with SF... So be it :p x
 
lil_legs said:
Just had a text off SF "Thursday best friends?" lol!! Haven't replied though, can't be doing this impromptu weekday shenanigans, a girl needs to prepare lol!

LOLZ!
****** the thought of 'preparation' terrifies me! In fact the thought of 'that' is terrifying full stop. Been a while!!
X
 
If I was tipsy I'd be all for it but just can't imagine opening the door, small talk then boosh... How does that occur lol!! I don't do things like this! But it may be what I need, just not tonight lol maybe I'll prepare on the weekend, just incase ;) x
 
Caroline_Louise said:
LOLZ!
****** the thought of 'preparation' terrifies me! In fact the thought of 'that' is terrifying full stop. Been a while!!
X

Sorry, I do feel like a gatecrasher on this thread, but it's better than Emmerdale (and THAT, my friends, is praise indeed ;))!

P x
 
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