Thank you all so much for your lovely comments! I am in Costas at the moment with an Americano and a gluten free choc brownie and an hours free wifi, so thought I would just pop into the Minimins support network!
I was really touched by the things you all said and they did make me feel a lot better. It was probably unfair of me to pick out OH's ex as there is no problem between us and we do get on well. I think it was because she is the only person I know for certain will be there and the last time I saw her was at a wedding which has pretty unpleasant memories attached to it. Again, nothing to do with her, but because of some awful stuff that was going on at the time, and also because of a disastrous choice of dress on my part, which looked great in the changing room, because it was too long and created a sort of flattering fishtail look, but once it was turned up, the night before the wedding, it changed the shape completely and looked horrendous. Anyone remember The Onedin Line? Ship in full sail just about sums it up. That was nearly three stones ago though, and I will NOT be wearing that style again!
So I decided some retail therapy was in order - not necessarily for the christening, but just 'cos I can! Left OH at home, so it is very civilised and chilled, wandering just where I want, trying things on etc. I have hit a few of the good quality second hand shops and the remains of the sales. Don't have a lot to spend, but having a lovely window shop and so far have picked up two dresses, a top, 3 necklaces, two canvas pictures and a jumper (yeah, I know it is 75° outside but it was my colour for £3.50, couldn't resist!)
Will update last night's food later. Over my weeklies by about 2-3 PP, as they had saved me a piece of gluten free chocolate torte specially! I promise to walk around as many shops as possible to work it off!