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[FatFairNForty(ish)]

Oh Kati (((hugs)))

My heart goes out to you... for what it's worth (and this is only from my experience)... meeting her won't make you feel any better at all! It will just make you examine, re-examine and re-re-examine everything all over again, and again, and again in teensy-weensy-minute detail and you will end up feeling a million times worse and for what Some shallow sl*t who can't keep her legs shut & has no morals and no consideration for her fellow womenkind?

Pah! (spit!) She's not worth your angst! She is nothing hunny! A big zero! A zilch! She isn't worth your thoughts, your emotions or any of your energy and she MOST DEFINITELY is NOT worth even a milli-second of your evening's enjoyment!!! You should PITY her!!

YOU are worth an inifinity of women like her! and don't even get me started on HIM!!!!!

You just go out, have a fantastic time and sod her (and him)!!!

AND - have all your packs madam!!!

If I can you can! AND you are doing SO fab!!!!

AND YOU ARE LOVEABLE!!!!! I totally and utterly empathise with how you are feeling and, if I showed your thoughts to my friends they would say i had written it - so.. believe me - YOU ARE LOVEABLE and HE's AN AR**HOLE !!

Take care and have fun! Sending happy and courageous thoughts your way!

 

[Coley]

Kati!!!! no!!!! don't go looking for this woman. Thats not what you're going for. Forget about the other women and get on with your life. Who cares about them and who cares if the swine is lying more?!! If it turns out he isn't lying any more would you try and get him back?? really, what is the point in asking the questions you don't really want the answer to. I'm dishing up some tough love here, but really, the best thing to do is carry on with your life. Come on hun, you know you're being a fruit loop.

 

[kati]

Come on hun, you know you're being a fruit loop.

lol you know what that is so right. I have never been like this in my life why would I want to start now. I wouldnt have caused trouble, I'd have been nice lol. Hey at leats I'm not going to get drunk and do something stupid I'll be very sober and level headed.

I'd have loved to have caught them there together myself though so I could have poured his pint all over them (he drinks diesel so nice purple stains lovely ) lol yes I am being very much a fruit loop and I need to stop. I'll go out and enjoy myself and pretend none of them exist.

FFF thankyou for all your comments sorry you've been through it all too
Ive had 2 packs but felt sick after so havent had any more. Think it was probably mental sickness rather than physical sickness though

 

[Isobel1965]

Hun - hope you have a fantastic time at Kate's gig - I really wanted to go but really can't as littlest girl is so poorly!!

And you know you don't want to confront the other woman. Pity her if anything - she hasn't got a clue what he's like.

You'll keep your dignity just by walking away.


HUGS xxxxxx


PS GET THEM FECKING PACKS DOWN YOU, LADY!!!! lol
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[FatFairNForty(ish)]

.... felt sick after so havent had any more. Think it was probably mental sickness rather than physical sickness though

Could be When I was feeling REALLY sick I found that making one of the shakes into a "muffin" helped me enormously. Have a great time tonight

 

[kati]

ok I'll take a tetra with me, or a bar.

I've found an old size 14 dress will fit me (yay!) so I'm wearing that and will look fabulous. I hope. I will make sure I go nowhere near mrs other woman who he reckons will be with some other man by now (ah how she must have cared for him eh)

Ok thats it I'm gonna shut up about her now.

apart from...I still feel so inferior

 

[kati]

oh and wow that bio oil is good, my skin feels soooo soft it's unbelievable

 

[FatFairNForty(ish)]

ok I'll take a tetra with me, or a bar.

YOU'RE A STAR!

I've found an old size 14 dress will fit me

FANTASTIC - strut your stuff!

...I still feel so inferior

I know that's how you FEEL, but you aren't. YOU can walk into any place with your head held high, she can't.
Seriously - in time you will realise this. (((hugs)))

 

[Isobel1965]

I still feel so inferior

Eleanor Roosevelt said - no one can make you feel inferior without your consent!


Don't let anyone drag you down, hun!

Enjoy the show and your bar! xxxxx

 

[kati]

thanks ladies I will feel better about myself once I get out there amongst other people I'm sure

 

[Coley]

Thats a gal!!! Enjoy your night....think of me typing away terrified writing the presentation I have to give on Monday........ ah dear!

 

[kati]

eek poor you!

now the question is do I wear my ultra sexy 4 inch heeled knee high boots that I cant stand up in for long (will I get a seat? lol) or should I go for the safe lower heeled sandal option?

 

[mustdoit]

boots ,boots,boots

 

[kati]

ok thanks

 

[FatFairNForty(ish)]

OMG! Deffo the BOOTS!

 

[kati]

lol I went with the boots. Had a good laugh then came home early for the kids.

It took me forever to find a parking space and ended up having to park right where mrs other woman was going to be. but, I walked straight past with my head up and heart pounding and didnt go in to find her. Anyone proud of me? lol.

I'd never hae had the guts to confront her anyway, he is the one the problem is with nt her I just wanted to see her

I took a bar with me so now I've had my 3 packs for the day. But now I'm a bar short for the week. Oh well never mind

 

[Coley]

Good girl. Best not to dwell on these things!! good on ya girlie!! Gold star!

 

[KateF]

Yay- glad you came and you looked absolutely great in the boots!!

Wish you could see that you're really attractive and an asset to any bloke.

Not that that one deserved you to be. Boo to him.

 

[slushy]

glad you had a good time and are feeling better kati

well done overcoming that hurdle
x

 

[FatFairNForty(ish)]

Those boots were made for walking..!

Good for you! Well done! I'm proud of ya - but more importantly - you should be proud of you! Glad you had a good time and had all 3 packs for the day!