Unthoughtful people!

[Befanwi]

Dear OH

Please make an effort to talk to me on the phone when i ring at work. One word answers and not bothering to ask how my day is going really really winds me up!!! :flamingmad:

I could have written this myself!! It's infuriating! And he always just seems desperate to get off the phone unless I have a direct question for him to answer.. Grr x

 

[Shirleen]

I could have written this myself!! It's infuriating! And he always just seems desperate to get off the phone unless I have a direct question for him to answer.. Grr x

Me three! And copy to: my manager

 

[slimmer4summer]

Dear owner of the dog who runs free....
I know I have no fence around my garden, therefore making it a public convenience for your adorable terrier, but I do not appreciate squashing half of your darling's waste into my boots and subsequently through my garden shed. I have just spent a disgusting 15 mins trying to clear away the mess. Please encourage your little friend to stay within the confines of your own garden.
Your very aggrieved neighbour.

P.S. Advise your dog that it will receive a less than civil reception should it venture into my yard again - that and I'm heading to the timber yard tomorrow to get that fence sorted!!!

 

[JezVonSavage]

Dear owner of the dog who runs free....
I know I have no fence around my garden, therefore making it a public convenience for your adorable terrier, but I do not appreciate squashing half of your darling's waste into my boots and subsequently through my garden shed. I have just spent a disgusting 15 mins trying to clear away the mess. Please encourage your little friend to stay within the confines of your own garden.
Your very aggrieved neighbour.

P.S. Advise your dog that it will receive a less than civil reception should it venture into my yard again - that and I'm heading to the timber yard tomorrow to get that fence sorted!!!

Have you spoke to them?? I'd be mortified if it was my dog!!

We had a similar issue with in our street, one family who let their Jack Russell run wild. I spoke to them in the end and they've sorted it.

 

[slimmer4summer]

I've been living here for about 3 years and still don't know the neighbours. Not sure who owns the dog. Most neighbours have them but they're sensibly happy in their gardens. Additionally Ive come into a very established estate, where people have lived all their lives and don't really want to ruffle feathers

 

[WelshJojo]

I've been living here for about 3 years and still don't know the neighbours. Not sure who owns the dog. Most neighbours have them but they're sensibly happy in their gardens. Additionally Ive come into a very established estate, where people have lived all their lives and don't really want to ruffle feathers

Even so, if the dog is messing in your garden, the owners should be cleaning it up! Irrespective of what kind of estate/neighbourhood you live in x

 

[Shirleen]

Call the neighbourhood warden this Is part of their job!

 

[interested92]

lady in boots. I know you're meant to offer them to everyone, but be a little sensible. if a person comes to your counter with a SHAPERS sushi snack box, SHAPERS fruit bag and a DIET chery coke, do you REALLY think they want to buy a 250g bar of chocolate, even if it IS only 35p?!

 

[nik86]

Dear my sisters friend (fellow bridesmaid)

Did you really have to try to push me to trying the bridesmaid dress in the shop today to the point where I had to insist no because it definitely wouldn't fit me being two sizes too small? My sister, Mum, ladies in the shop didn't try to push so why did you? Also blurting out loudly in the shop your 'amazement' that you only need a size 6 for your dress when you know full well you are a tiny size and have been since our childhood! Its hard enough being a bridesmaid next to you and then I hear your trying to loose weight?!?! And yes I did make a point (once asked by the shop assistant) saying how much weight I have lost since Christmas because I needed to cheer myself up after you were so unthoughtful! I am making such an effort to loose weight partly for this wedding so there was no need for you to be like this!

Rant over!

 

[Jodieboo]

Dear Leo.

I class you as a very good friend and you know this. I have been there for you when you were moving house, gave you food when you had no money and no food, cook you meals, drive you to A+E, spend £14 on a taxi to yours when you're having a panic attack in the middle of the night AND try to help you with your anxiety/depression.

So when Roxy (your supposed girlfriend) comes round here saying that you have split up with her and I try to comfort her, I think to myself "What's going through his mind?"

When I finally get to speak to you privately about it after not having means of contact for 3 weeks, there was no need for you to be rude about it!

I know it's not my business, but when your girlfriend comes round here EVERY DAY for hours on end moaning and worrying about your relationship, or lack of, then I think that i'm sort of being involved unwillingly!

I thought that you could talk to me, you've wanted me there before when you've needed someone. I've even offered you to stay with me until you find somewhere else to live! Your attitude towards me today when I was trying to help was uncalled for. Just goes to show that my friendship and kindness meant nothing. I won't be bothering again.

Thanks.

 

[tallsarah]

Dear my sisters friend (fellow bridesmaid)

Did you really have to try to push me to trying the bridesmaid dress in the shop today to the point where I had to insist no because it definitely wouldn't fit me being two sizes too small? My sister, Mum, ladies in the shop didn't try to push so why did you? Also blurting out loudly in the shop your 'amazement' that you only need a size 6 for your dress when you know full well you are a tiny size and have been since our childhood! Its hard enough being a bridesmaid next to you and then I hear your trying to loose weight?!?! And yes I did make a point (once asked by the shop assistant) saying how much weight I have lost since Christmas because I needed to cheer myself up after you were so unthoughtful! I am making such an effort to loose weight partly for this wedding so there was no need for you to be like this!

Rant over!

what a nasty cow she is, hope your ok

 

[tallsarah]

Dear Leo.

I class you as a very good friend and you know this. I have been there for you when you were moving house, gave you food when you had no money and no food, cook you meals, drive you to A+E, spend £14 on a taxi to yours when you're having a panic attack in the middle of the night AND try to help you with your anxiety/depression.

So when Roxy (your supposed girlfriend) comes round here saying that you have split up with her and I try to comfort her, I think to myself "What's going through his mind?"

When I finally get to speak to you privately about it after not having means of contact for 3 weeks, there was no need for you to be rude about it!

I know it's not my business, but when your girlfriend comes round here EVERY DAY for hours on end moaning and worrying about your relationship, or lack of, then I think that i'm sort of being involved unwillingly!

I thought that you could talk to me, you've wanted me there before when you've needed someone. I've even offered you to stay with me until you find somewhere else to live! Your attitude towards me today when I was trying to help was uncalled for. Just goes to show that my friendship and kindness meant nothing. I won't be bothering again.

Thanks.

you poor thing, that must have really hurt, maybe he is upset about his relationship and took it out on you, still not a good way to behave though!

 

[timtim]

Dear friends,

No I am not a bore or a sad hermit because I don't want to go out clubbing every weekend there are several reasons I don't want to go
1. It takes me too far off plan
2. I'm skint because it's my oh 30th next week
3. It's freezing
4. None of my old clothes fit me properly and I feel to uncomfortable to get all dressed up in a too tight dress!
I've told you all this yet you still moan and call me a bore all the time leave me alone or I won't go out next month either

Thanks your annoyed bore of a friend!

 

[lanugowife]

Dear friends,

No I am not a bore or a sad hermit because I don't want to go out clubbing every weekend there are several reasons I don't want to go
1. It takes me too far off plan
2. I'm skint because it's my oh 30th next week
3. It's freezing
4. None of my old clothes fit me properly and I feel to uncomfortable to get all dressed up in a too tight dress!
I've told you all this yet you still moan and call me a bore all the time leave me alone or I won't go out next month either

Thanks your annoyed bore of a friend!

Here here! I agree with the above & can I please add I have a 4 month old son & am breastfeeding so find it easier all round if I don't drink at the mo! Sorry if that makes me a bore, but I. DONT. CARE! x

 

[timtim]

Here here! I agree with the above & can I please add I have a 4 month old son & am breastfeeding so find it easier all round if I don't drink at the mo! Sorry if that makes me a bore, but I. DONT. CARE! x

Haha being a bore is perfectly fine with me! You think ppl would have more understanding considering you have a new baby! Save our money for the summer in our new little summer dresses lol x

 

[Jodieboo]

Dear my lovely OH.

I really wish you would consult me on some things you do. I do not appreciate the secrets you keep from me. How do you think I felt earlier when my uncle came round and told me that you had asked him to take you over to Nuneaton tomorrow, collect your "cousin" and her things, bring her back to MY home and let her stay?! Without consulting me?! This is MY HOME. You know I can't stand your "cousin" and that I think she's a slag. How do you expect me not to think that when the first time you met her, she was all over you? Sitting on your lap and hugging you INFRONT OF ME?! So yes Craig, I do think she's a slag, bunny boiler and the local bike. I'm sorry if this is offending you, but you wouldn't put up with it if the situation was reversed. So why you think it's ok to offer her to move in here is beyond me. I've seen the messages between you two and she couldn't even remember my name!

So yes, i'm highly annoyed and no, it's not going to happen. The saying "It's me or the dog" really applies now. I know you think i'm being selfish and that it's your "family", but really, would you let a lad stay with us that had been all over me? I think not.

If you don't like the backlash of me finding out about this, then you should have spoke to me first before you started arranging things.

Next time, I will punch you

Lots of love!

 

[bevhunter1986]

Jodieboo epic I love your last but one line! Sounds like me - maybe mine would more like I'll smash ya face in! ha ha x

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[Bunnylush]

Still loving this thread, and pleased people are venting their frustrations.

 

[bevhunter1986]

Dear 'friend'

I know you're going out with my brother but please don't text me to find out where he is by initially acting like you want to see how i am?!

Whilst him and i do live in the same house, if you've noticed I'm not his mother nor his keeper! He is 23! If he hasn't text you back, bloody ring him!!!

Oh yeah and don't keep winding him up by promising to stay over then not bothering to contact him or let him down at the last minute. Then to be pissed at him when he for the first time does it back to you!

Thanks

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[Bunnylush]

Thanks for coming up with the idea bunny lush. You have ridden alot of people of pent up anger. And if you de-stress you live longer.

So in a round about way your saving lives.....lol

Lou x

Lol, I'm so pleased to be of good use! Do I have flashing light sirens on my head now? Letters after my name? A white coat?