JanD's New Year, New Start, Maintenance Diary

[kered]

Well fingers and everything else crossed that it wont come to that then Jan, I mean the seperation, not the liquid lunch.

 

[JanD]

Thanks hon .. I think it's more or less inevitable now though ... still - focus on the positives!!!! xx

 

[kered]

Well everything is done for a reason eh Jan, there must be something that will come good out of it in the future.

Might be doom and gloom at the moment, but I am sure the sun will come shining through eventually.

 

[JanD]

:character00238: xx

 

[JanD]

Adding 2 Roses chocs

It's weird - I just emailed my cousin's husband and copied his PA as I always do as he's a TEENSY bit technophobic (well he IS 70) and she replied immediately - my cousin herself is in the office so we're having an econversation via Marisa (PA) as Pam can't use a keyboard .... working nights has it's compensations when they're 11 hours ahead xx

 

[Zebs07]

.... in Sydney I'm going to meet my (probably soon to be ex) son-in-law's mum who lives there for (a probably very liquid) lunch where we will probably cry on each other's shoulders **sigh** but hey - it's life ....

too many probablys - sorry xx

Oh Jan ... I know that you have been keeping your cards close to your chest on your recent family problems ... but if she lives in Australia, does that mean your son-in-law may move there if he becomes an ex! Im filling up here at the thought of you possibly losing those gorgeous wee boys to the other side of the world, even if it is only for part of the year!

Sorry .. shut up Ness, making things worse probably! Changing subject now!

Im still boke'ng at the thought of Hellman's on toast - however I have given it some thought and am not sure why? After all, I would eat mayo on a sandwich or even a club sandwich which is after all toast - it just doesnt sit right with me as mayo solo on toast - think you should add some yummy ingredients like bacon or chicken or ham and cheese slice ... just to make me feel better you understand!

Anyways, three days to go - well two actually seeing as I am catching up on past posts. OOoooooooh how exciting ... have a fabby wabby fantabulous time!
(which I dont doubt you will lol)

 

[summergurl]

still - focus on the positives!!!! xx

Indeedamundo!!! xxx

 

[irish molly]

Jan, have a really good break. I hope you can park your worries fir a while and manage to have a reasonably good time. Xxx

 

[JanD]

Oh Vanessa you're so funny I'm sure I will be doing my fair share of 'making you feel better' while I'm away

No worries about my 'babies' disappearing to Oz - unfortunately they are his problem - he & my son still love each other dearly but he hasn't and can't bond with the boys (it's been 2.5yrs) & now can't even bear to be in the same room as them. My son has a very strong bond and love for them and there is no choice for him.

ANYHOO : One day everyone will be fandabidozee happy!!!

Thursday 10th March

Breakie - 4 little (TINY!) slices of toast with helmanns (sorry )

Bed

Tea - chicken with brocolli, leek & sweet potato, dessertspoon helmanns

Brunch bar

Work - chicken & cottage cheese salad, fruit salad & ww yog. xx

 

[summergurl]

Awww Jan that is such a shame and a pretty sh**ty situation :hug99:

You are loving the Helmans right now aren't you!!!! :giggle: xxx

 

[kered]

Do you know, I have only had full fat mayo about 3 times in my life..........its such a difference to the low fat crap eh!

 

[summergurl]

Oh yer it's delicious but I just can't bring myself to buy it!! Lol

 

[kered]

I have never bought it, the only time I had it was when I had something like a tuna salad in a restaurant - it tastes so creamy!

 

[JanD]

I love it ... you may have gathered :giggle: I'm TRYING to forget about losing weight and just have a little of what I fancy .. Obviously that will all change when I'm back off holiday but for now ..... xx

 

[kered]

Well you have been extremely good Jan, so if a little holiday mode has kicked in - enjoy it!

 

[summergurl]

2 days!!!!!! Holiday mode, we all love that

 

[JanD]

xx

 

[Zebs07]

No worries about my 'babies' disappearing to Oz - unfortunately they are his problem - he & my son still love each other dearly but he hasn't and can't bond with the boys (it's been 2.5yrs) & now can't even bear to be in the same room as them. My son has a very strong bond and love for them and there is no choice for him xx

oh that is sooooooo sad - for all involved! Tragic ... but a Big Up to him for admitting to it! Must've been soooo hard - but boys come first and he obviously doesn't want them to live with a parent who can't give them what they deserve!

So so so sad ... No win for anyone and broken hearts all round!!

Scuse me if overstepping the line and I'm sure it's already been thought of - but he's not depressed is he? It cud be presenting in that way and not in any other obvious way! Counselling ... b4 a family is ripped apart ?!?!?

 

[MiniB]

What an awful situation Jan, no wonder you've been so upset lately. What an terrible shame!

 

[SandraB]

Oh yer it's delicious but I just can't bring myself to buy it!! Lol

Try making it yourself Tan, it's dead easy and you only need make as much as you need so you don't have a big jar in the fridge tempting you to get one of those finger things that Nessa was going on about