ProPoints SIMPLY FILLING DIARY ... So close to goal ......

[*Claire-Bear*]

She needs to make it up to u sweetie x it's wen u need ur mum the most innit Hun x
Oo try not to stress too much, have u anyone else to help like ur bridesmaids or close friends, that way if she knows u got someone else to do stuff with she will take note n may start? Just a thought Hun xxx

I know .. i want her to be like, so let me see your cake, how do u want your hair, can i come and see your dress, what favours are u havin, etc ....

My bridesmaid lives 30 miles away so i dont get to see her very often, she is helping me with invited n stuff but other than that ... its just little old me ... ..

 

[MrsLmc]

Ahh Claire I fell for you. Maybe your other half should have a little word with her! Might help xxxxx

 

[Dubchick81]

Thanks Frances, much appreciated ... im her only daughter, i no what u mean tho, if she had other daughters then maybe she would have her favourite one, etc .. but no this is her only chance to be mother of the bride. and yep, i no for a fact that my cousins mum gets upset about it all, shes even told my mum about it ..... but still it continues ................. i really dont get it ..... and then ive got a tit of a dad, who doesnt give a sh!t about me or anything ... so its not like i can be like, yes atleast ive got my dad ....... ,,, ahhhhhhhhh!!!! I was deeply upset at my graduation last year too, they attended but that was it ... noone even bought me a drink as i assumed id atleast get a bit of a fuss ... but no, we went to the pub after it and i sat there with a coke i bought myself .. my poor fella felt so bad about it (the lack of celebration) that he went out n bought me a load of presents to make up for them lot .... so maybe i shouldnt be so suprised about all this????

and .. ya no what men are like ... all he goes on about is the bloody honeymoon LOL

Typical men eh!?
I really feel for ya hun. I'm guessing yer cousin knows how it gets to u n her mam too then?? So having a word wudn do much good???
Really hope ur mam wises up n realises all the precious moments she's missing out on before it's too late. Fair play to yer bf for making a fuss of ya. Clearly he realises how much yer worth. Even if at the moment yer parents are ignoring it xxxx

 

[Wishbird007]

Aw bless ur OH Hun x

 

[MrsLmc]

Your other half sounds very kind and very observant for a fella. Just remember you are marrying him not your mum! She'll soon realise what she's missing!! Look after yourself xx((hugs))

 

[VeggieAnna]

Awww Claire im sorry to hear bout ur family probs...ur OH will be ur family now though and sounds like youve got yourself a good one there I know that doesnt make up for it though and hope your mom listens to you this time!! hugs xxxx

 

[*Claire-Bear*]

Awwww thanks everyone .. it means so much to hear your kind words ....... ohhh, i need to try n forget it all now coz im sick of thinkin about it in my head .... it feels like ive been cheated on by the love of my life all this ........... and you cant get over it .. i hope it all resolves one day ......

Frances, my cousin loves it all .... she slags me off all the time, shes always trying to better me, but im not in no game with her ... so i dont no why she plays such childish games, im a woman who likes quality but my family call me a snob (im far from it, esp wen i buy anything on sale and refuse to pay for a hair cut LOL) .. but anyway, she all of a sudden booked her wedding just before i payed my deposit and made out that shes in competition with me (her wedding is booked for 2013) .. and thats just reminded me, i called my mum first wen i booked my venue with my date as thats what u do right? ...... and in that 2minute conversation, my cousin popped up ... i shouted at my mum of course but still once again, it ruined it !! god im just rantin now, guna shushhhh xxxxxx thanks all .. your ace

 

[*Claire-Bear*]

Ahh Claire I fell for you. Maybe your other half should have a little word with her! Might help xxxxx

This may work ........ ile have a word with him .. thnks xxxxx

 

[CarlyLanky140]

Massive hugs sweetheart! I'm so sorry ur mum isn't being very supportive! I think my mum will be the same! She should be there for every little thing! Every dress, every fitting, every fayre! Hugs!!! Xx

 

[azwethinkweiz]

I feel a bit angry with your mum and your cousin (who's obviously jealous by the way) on your behalf lovie... I'm so glad you seem to have such a kind OH & glad he made a fuss of you like you deserve. He should prob help with the planning though as its very hard for you to do everything by yourself.
Try and surround yourself with the people who DO care and who show that they care. Big hugs xxxxxx

Sent from my Galaxy S using MiniMins

 

[*Claire-Bear*]

Your not the only one Sarah .... i tell ppl and they look gobsmacked ..... my cousin i think has always been slightly jealous of me ..... but at the end of the day, everthin ive achieved ive done myself, so im super proud of that ...... Carly, thanks for your kind words ... it means a lot that you all care enough to write me some special messages, so im super grateful taaaa pretty ladies xxxxxxx and im guna have to kick my fella up the ass i think

 

[Dubchick81]

Aww.. but as much as he shud help wit the wedding he's there for ya 100% chic.. defo a keeper
Hope yer mam realises soon n grabs every minute she can Xx

 

[CarlyLanky140]

Hugs!!! I'll be ur mum if u like lol...would love to shop with u... I'm bridesmaid for first time ever and so excited but not invited to any fayres or anything zz

 

[*Claire-Bear*]

Carly ... you can be my adopted mum aw its a shame you havent been invited, esp as your bridesmaid?? ......

Thanks Frances .... hes deffo a keeper, even if do throw tantrums at him every now n then but he knows im a drama queen thru n thru ... hehe xxxxx

 

[CarlyLanky140]

So excited about meeting u soon xx

 

[*Claire-Bear*]

Me tooooo Carly

 

[Wishbird007]

Aw guys really excited for u, that yr meeting up, wish I cud b there! Will u b putting pix on ur profiles pls so I can feel like I been there ?
Omg 2 wks hols with no minimins buddies or a mobile I may die lol! X

 

[Dubchick81]

Thanks Frances .... hes deffo a keeper, even if do throw tantrums at him every now n then but he knows im a drama queen thru n thru ... hehe xxxxx

Oh you and me both.. But sure they love us for it xx

 

[*Claire-Bear*]

Todays diary ........

Milk = 3
Breakfast
toast with ham = 3 ......... 6

Snack
Heinz chicken noodle soup = 3
(cheeky slither of cake had to be done)
.... 9

Dinner
ww chilli = 6
30g rice = 3
mini curly wurly + chomp = 3
apple = 0 ............................... 21

Tea
Slow cooked beef stew = 6 (200g braising steak, veggies + beef stock) Mmmm
couple of new potatoes = 2
veggies = 0 .................................... 29

Ive eaten a few naughty little bits today .... couldnt help it ...... so not expectin much in tomo's w.i .............

 

[*Claire-Bear*]

Aw guys really excited for u, that yr meeting up, wish I cud b there! Will u b putting pix on ur profiles pls so I can feel like I been there ?
Omg 2 wks hols with no minimins buddies or a mobile I may die lol! X

Yes yes, we sure will .......... im sure youll live ... forget us and the diet - you deserve it